The Zipless Fuck  

HesterPrynne2 61F
32 posts
7/10/2005 11:02 am

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The Zipless Fuck

I think most men are looking for the "zipless fuck". That phrase was coined by Erica Jong many years ago. It's entered the "Urban Dictionary" as follows:

A phrase coined by Erica Jong in the book "Fear of Flying". As described by her - It is a sexual encounter between strangers that has the swift compression of a dream and is seemingly free of all remorse and guilt. It is absolutely pure, there is no power game and it is free of ulterior motives. It has also been described as the perfect one night stand.

'The zipless fuck is the purest thing there is, rarer than the unicorn and I have never had one.' - "Fear of Flying"

Do you believe there is such a thing? Is it what you're looking for?

DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/11/2005 8:39 am

Pure unadulterated sexual pleasure is not to be discounted, for do we judge those of the animal kingdom for doing such? I don't.


DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/11/2005 9:47 am

Thinking . . .

However, humans--in their full capacities of intellectual and emotional needs of fulfillment--are certainly much more than animals.

I don't pretend to know all about what's acceptable and what's unacceptable between the two sexes, but I think I know that consentual & mutual attraction, with honest respect, is paramount in what ever the coupling entails. Don't you?

HesterPrynne2 61F

7/11/2005 11:24 am

Absolutely. I think the question is really about passion. Can you experience passion with someone you don't even know? Have you? I have certainly had and enjoyed just intercourse on various occasions. However, none of those experience will even come close to making it into my sexual "Hall of Fame", how about you?

DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/12/2005 9:48 pm

Hmmmm, I've not, until now, even thought of my own sexual "Hall Of Fame" but now that you've introduce such a notion I'm gonna have to build one. There are a few sexual encounters, "the real deal" women that come to mind that would be, should be, honored with my placement of them installed there.

The best passionate sex I've experienced was when all reins were let go and when I've had the entire privilege of climbing into her soul through her glazed eyes while being marinated in her full adoring sexual favors.

The only man never to be redeemed is the man without passion.

DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/13/2005 8:37 am

AH, I just thought of something creative !

Silly me, I should have put it together within my 3rd reply.

Hester, we shall call it a "Hall of Flame."

Perhaps "Hall of Old Flame" would work as well?

What say ye?

Who admires your brain? DDO

HesterPrynne2 61F

7/13/2005 10:30 am

Well now, there's another concept I have... the "silver box". The silver box is where you carry the best fuck you ever had. Up until recently what was in my silver box was something from 20 years ago. And doesn't it figure that an AdultFriendFinder experience replaced it. I hope it's not another 20 years before upgrading the contents once more.

funtimesphx 69M  
39 posts
7/13/2005 2:09 pm

A Sexual Hall of Fame what an ideal way to set aside the "Journal Entry" experiences that one can have over the years. Not measured by the actual act but the events surrounding and coursing through the actual encounter. The ability on both parties to completely let go where there are no inhibitions throwing up roadblocks. So very rare. Could be a one time meeting of the senses or a love affair that was so pure that boundaries were unthinkable. Never mentioned.....never thought of.....and certainly never have the freedom to actually know that "you say it best when you say nothing at all" is a peek through the doorway to Nirvana. The thrill of spontaniety hightens the intensity. And I wonder would individuals that we place in our Hall have us in theirs straight across the board or is this all just perception based on our own cerebral limitations.

HesterPrynne2 61F

7/13/2005 5:05 pm

Well, you bring up something else I feel like commenting on. It's about communication. The most magical moments in my life have been when you are with someone and there is an electrical, cerebral connection between you. Their eyes are the windows to their soul, and yours are the window to yours. You completely "get" the other person. It doesn't have to be at all sexual, in fact it probably usually isn't.

However, when you do have that experience in the context of a sexual experience, it totally blows you away.

DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/14/2005 2:57 pm

HP, your last comment is emblematic of what sex is really all about.

It's not the breasts, nipples, or ass, it's not about the thickness of the penis, it's not about the clit or vaginal tightness, it's not about the abs or bi's or tri's, it's not about the tongue and mouth . . .

It's about the brain. Most people don't get it. That is why so many dumb men buy dumb blowup dolls, they just don't get it. Most men "think" with the "branch" office and completely ignore the corporate office all together.

It's a well known fact among observant thinking people that the BRAIN is the body's biggest sex organ, that's the size that really matters.

I've been known to turn away from a blonde bimbo bombshell for in lieu of being with a mindful woman, no matter the outer shell of her body.

I've rarely watched Dr. Phil on TV but I did get a chance to speak on the same stage as him this month in Vegas and I've got to tell you, he's in real life what he portrays himself to be on TV; a well balanced, thoughful, sound and pensive human being who's wife adores him.

To end this lengthy post, and to support your last post about communication HesterP, whn it comes to sex, let me quote his favorite saying.



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