Can you be a little bit pregnant?  

HesterPrynne2 61F
32 posts
7/14/2005 6:01 pm

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Can you be a little bit pregnant?

Don't worry, this post isn't really about being pregnant.

Let's say you are a woman, and you are seeing a man who is married (met on AdultFriendFinder of course), but he is carrying on heavy duty chats, possibly to be followed up soon with an actual meeting, with someone whose goal is "serious relationship". And she is a virgin, and he has told her he is single, not married.

Would you believe him to be a trustworthy person? Or would you start to doubt whether he is being truthful, even to you? It seems like once you lie at all, we are no longer able to talk about whether you lie or not... it is only a matter of degree. I think.

I just want to know if I was way off base on this one.

DesertDwellerOne 66M

7/14/2005 8:47 pm

The truth be told HP, ALL humans lie. It's as natural as walking. You see it in the very young human beings as they verbally manuveur to cover their ass from a spanking or detention and you see it prevelant in business transactions. You see it in the USA's current Sadministration's trumped up war machine. It's all about perception and deception and if you come across a human that says, "I don't lie" then you have come across a deceptive liar.

HP, where you might be "off base" is, let's not feign incredulousness when we discover someone has lied to us, let's get real and expect, to varying degrees of intensity, to be lied to at one point or another.

Truth be told, I too lie and so do you.

Who in this forum has the balls to say otherwise?


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
7/14/2005 9:58 pm

nah your pretty much spot on actually....

lol yeah even I have said it although not to boney, Boney I just handed him the strip and said

babe I think I am pregnant,

Babe you did it again,

WTF Oh god no .....No I am not Joking!


HesterPrynne2 61F

7/15/2005 5:56 am

I do agree with you to a point, DDO. I think what you CAN do is clearly define what the line is. My husband hasn't had sex with me (or anyone) in 10 years, and when I first got on AdultFriendFinder, he wasn't aware of what I was doing. At the time I put out there that it was the ONLY thing I was lying about, and even then, it weighed heavily on me. So much so that I eventually brought it up and he now understands what I am doing (although does not want to know how), and is okay with it. I realize not everyone can do that, but what they CAN do is clearly define the line over which they will not cross. When the line becomes fuzzy, everything becomes fuzzy.

HesterPrynne2 61F

7/17/2005 8:46 am

Nothing has come of it, in fact I am not sure you posted your comment to the right blog, as I have no idea who you are or who sadock76 is.

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