The Question Of The Day......  

HeartlessBitch69 46F
6876 posts
6/15/2006 12:09 am

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6/16/2006 10:09 pm

The Question Of The Day......

I have a been wondering something for the past few days, weeks, years, whatever.

Those of you who have been with me since the start of my blog, know my attitude pretty well. I am pretty rough and opinionated.

Since october you have read alot of my rantings and been there through my angry fits, and my depressing moments. And you have learned alot about me from my blog.

Alot of you have grow to love me for the person I am. And expect nothing less of me then a page full of rants and bitching!

And I have a pretty fucked up sense of humor! Alot don't know how to take me, and skyking412004 was on the recieving end of my humor and didn't take it as being funny at first. But now we can laugh about it!

But my question I was wondering about, I do not pretend to be anyone else but me, and what you see is what you get. And if you have liked me as a friend knowing how I am, would you want me to change? Would you want me to put on a fake front? Would you want me to be something I am not?

I try to do the pretty little blogs about fluffy bunnies and love and shit, but thats not me!

I mean this is ME! Take it or leave it! How you see me here on my blog is exactly how I am in my everyday life out here in the real world!

Do you ever feel that people have met you fallin for you and want you to change knowing how you were when you met?


sexymamma662003 31F

6/15/2006 12:51 am

i think you are great just the way you are. if i was to come here and see bunnies and flowers i would think there was something wrong. i have not been folowing your blog for very long but i know who you are. you are a BITCH lol. no one can excpect youto be anyone other then your self and anyone who wants you to change should be fucked side ways. you are who you are and i like that about you. there are far to many people on the blogs that put up a front and only post what they think what others want to read. not you and that makes us come back every day to see what you haev to bitch about next

keep at it girl. love your stuff


boredatnight3 49M

6/15/2006 1:02 am

I like your straight forward honest approach on your blog about the guy getting the strap-on. I don't really know you other than what I have read tonight. I would rather get to know the real you the first time!
Same goes for me and anyone else too. I like who and what I am, most of the time. Why would I want to change someone that I fell for????
Oh, just for the record. I'm ME , and you are You! LOL

BBbikerbabe6969 51F
37 posts
6/15/2006 1:33 am

I did not read your stuff from the start, hell I was not here very long before I went missing. But I don't think you should ever change. And btw what happened to that sexy man you were seeing?

1000ft_above 45M

6/15/2006 1:40 am

I would never ask anyone to change who they are. If you don't like a certain trait or behavior but accept the person for who they are, then you have no right to ask them to change later on anyway.

The wonderful thing about being human is that nobody IS alike, we all have a uniqueness that we need to be individuals.

Never stop bieng you HB...never. ok?


skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
6/15/2006 2:22 am

_____I could be wrong, but I think part of why you are who you are, currently, is because you are in a bad place in your life. Wouldn't it be easier to write about fluffy bunnies if you were happier? I would like for you to be happier.////
_____If you are ever with anyone who has "fallen" for you, and they want you to as fast as you can for the hills. Not being able to accept someone for who they are is a recipe for disaster. If I can't be comfortable in a relationship with a woman as she is, I can't be with her. The only person who we can ever change is ourselves.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/15/2006 3:00 am

You keeping it REAL is what keeps me coming back..!!... CHANGE..??...HELL FUCKING HELL NO...Ready


angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
6/15/2006 5:20 am

I wouldn't want you to change! And as a nurse....I would like working with you! I have a good friend...also a nurse...that tells it like it is....and I love her dearly! Don't change yourself for anyone but yourself!

GreyFox_in_LV 68M
167 posts
6/15/2006 7:17 am

I confess I am a newbie on AdultFriendFinder, but have discovered the blogs and a few groups. I find myself spending most my time here.

I like you, that you stick to your guns, and tell it like it is and anyone don't like it, Fuck em!. This is America after all.
You go Lady!

BTW where does one find the definitive definition of "Bitch"
and what's the Male equivalent?

Larry - Da Ol Geezer and his 2 cents worth.

Sweetpickles69 47F

6/15/2006 8:28 am

I'm the same way, Blunt & to the Point! Life's too short to beat around the bush! Blog on Sister!



firestarter665 42M/39F

6/15/2006 9:01 am

Well, I have not been with you from the start. I do love you for who you are and wouldn't want you to change. No one should change for anyone else, you do it for yourself.

Be you, be true!!!!

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/15/2006 9:45 am

If you change who you are, I'll stop reading, okay?

NG61...slipping back into the shadows...

HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/15/2006 10:12 am

Nightguy_1961--OMG, Damn It you made me giggle! lol

firestarter665--TY dear!

Sweetpickles69--You too pickels!

OldGeezer59--Google It!

angelofmercy5--The nurses love me, the aids fear me!

tayninh2--I'm lovable?


skyking412004--But how can I be a mean evil heartless bitch if everyone keeps calling me "CUTE"? lol

1000ft_above--I promise! As long as you send me some naked pic of you! LMAO

BBbikerbabe6969--My sexy man is in mexico and has been busy!

boredatnight3--I dunno could you live with the evil chaotic heartless bitch 24/7?

sexymamma662003--Ya know Back in the Day I was far worse!

JPP2200 63M

6/15/2006 1:19 pm

    Quoting longhairednikki:
    Sweetie, you know I liked and admired you from the day I met you and Sophia.

    Would I want you to change?? NO - but I've said it b4.. I sure would want you to be happy. I have always felt you deserve so much more than what you are getting. )

    I feel you are my friend here and I would be honored to have you as my friend irl.
That is right on the money. I love your attitude and if we met we would get along grrrrreat. Don't change. But in your life, be happy. You deserve better---like with that ahole who wanted to hang around and watch TV. You deserve much better.

Looking4sex44240 54F

6/15/2006 1:55 pm

Would I want you to change NO. I can tell your not very happy, but I still think ppl should be who they are, you should not have to change for anyone...if they like you it's because your being yourself.

rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
6/15/2006 3:58 pm

Maybe just a little cute and fuzzy bunny post a month?

running from the room before I get slapped

secret_eyespy 54M
488 posts
6/15/2006 4:17 pm

OK, all you curious AdultFriendFinder members who've NOT had the privaledge of meeting HB face to face listen to what I have to say. Put on your listening ears and thinking caps and heed my next statement.

HB is just the same in person as she is on her blog!!

Why oh why can't people get that through their thick fucking heads. It takes too much effort for someone who is NOT like her to keep up the charade on her blogs all this time. I haven't been with her blogs from the very start but a little research can prove that she's been on here for some time and under another name. I found all that. I've read most everything she's posted even before meeting her. She walks it like she talks it. Funny....hell yes. Bitchy.....fuck yes. Sexy in all the right places......OH FUCK YES!! Our conversations went back and forth just like she writes it. Our phone calls followed the exact same montra as her blogs. She and I are probably chiseled from the same piece of stone granite. Rough on one side and baby smooth on the other.

Why the fuck would anyone want you to change? That's bullshit. Where you're at in your life is no ones business except yours.

The only thing I want to change is our rendezvous point. You bring your "purdy pussy" and I'll bring the rest of what you want. Then we can make sweet music together.......that's fucking bullshit. We're gonna fuck like wild animals and not give a shit who is watching or listening. When we get done you'll go home with a smile on your face and so will I.

I see the bat signal is up. I'll cum to your rescue.....

rm_BigDnLady 43M/41F
1140 posts
6/15/2006 5:12 pm

I have been involved with people who wanted to change me, and I can't stand shit like that. I like who you are. Just as I love me. That is what the world is all about everyone being different. People tend to want to change people for their selfish reasons, to make it easier for THEM not the person they are attempting to change. Stay who you are. Fuck the ones who don't like you for who you are.


goodguysneedit2 56M

6/15/2006 8:50 pm

I'd probably want you to change at family dinners (just a little), and maybe when we dine at elaborate, elite, snooty places together.

Nah... fuck that last one... let's give 'em a night to create new public-conduct ordinances over!

It's your rants that heat me up, dammit! Makes me want to tame the beast...but it doesn't mean I want it tamed! It's passion!

HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/15/2006 10:54 pm

longhairednikki--Ty Big sis!



cru1972--I can try!

secret_eyespy--I thought I had that bat signal up???


goodguysneedit2--I am glad I get you excited!

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
6/16/2006 12:33 am

    Quoting rm_cru1972:
    Maybe just a little cute and fuzzy bunny post a month?

    running from the room before I get slapped
I would never ask you to " do the pretty little blogs about fluffy bunnies and love and shit, but thats not me!"...but you could at least do all your ranting in cute, revealing fluffy bunny outfit...

HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/16/2006 12:37 am

LustyTaurus--OOO yea that would be cute! NOT!

willing2tryit42 40M
1141 posts
6/16/2006 12:37 am

DONT CHANGE A THING!!!! I did it once and am scarred horribly ever since!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BTW could you look ya self in the mirror in the morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HeartlessBitch69 46F

6/16/2006 12:57 am

willing2tryit42--No I couldn't!

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