Writer Needed - Inquire Within  

HardlyYours4Now 52M
951 posts
8/30/2005 5:04 pm

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Writer Needed - Inquire Within

A respondent has said there was some kind of discrepancy between my blog and my profile. Okay, read through it three times (and boy does it feel strange to be checking myself out like that), and I don't see it.

But I am probably too close to the thing to have a clear perspective.

In an email I sent lately, I told the reader to check out my blog, that it says more about me than a short profile ever could. So I am asking you to write my profile, based on what you've seen in the blog.

So, at least for the moment, I'm open. Hit me with your best shot. Tell me who you think I am based on what you see here. I'm not going to ban anyone.

No pandering, either. Unless it is somewhat sincere. Or unless you feel sorry for me after someone posts something really mean.


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/30/2005 11:51 pm

I saw the comment that you are referring to and was wondering about what he meant myself, SO, I went back and reread your profile. I think it was Saturday or Sunday night I read all your blogs, from start to finish...okay, bear with me now (I've slept since then).

Yhe one thing that I can remember that might not match up between your profile and blog, and I'm paraphrasing is the fact in your profile you basically state you'd be happy with any woman, as long as she's honest. Someplace, and I can't remember where, you talk about a big ass and getting lost in there and being scared, which says you do have a preherence.

As far as what Mizzkitka says about changing your profile if you want to get laid, I disagree. I think you pretty well present yourself as what you are and as she said, if a woman is smart enough she'll get it. If something is worth having it doesn't sell any better with some hyped-up advertisement.

It's all about location, location, location!
Sweetie, you're just too far away to get laid.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/30/2005 11:52 pm

Heh, excuse the typos. It doesn't pay to type in the dark.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/31/2005 2:35 am

mizzkitka -

Well done! I think you may have captured some of the ambiguity I feel about being here. On the one hand, the idea of being an autosexual the rest of my life (auto as in autobiography) has no appeal; on the other, I was brought up with fairly conservative Christian values, and I struggle with that...

I guess that's why I get so whacky about the word "cheater;" half of me agrees that's what I'm doing and the other half says, "But if they could only live in my world for a few days..."

Sounds like maybe you'd suggest I just put a note in my profile to come read the blog. That would certainly do some early filtering, wouldn't it?

Thanks!


HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/31/2005 2:40 am

Kat -

Many thanks. You're good people. I think I've been afraid to put the eyes on my profile pic for fear of self-identification. There appear to be a dozen or so members within '0 miles,' and not all of them are friendly to married guys out here on their own.

And now that I look at it, the pic I do have makes it look like my teeth are some wierd pink color. Hmm.

New profile pic coming up - the eyes have it.

Thanks for the input!


HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/31/2005 2:50 am

Daphne -

Just read your profile and the 'more answers' section. May I say,"SCH-WING!!!"

(Hardly shouts upstairs) "Honey, we're moving to Albequerque!"

Seriously, thanks for the input. And you read the whole blog? Funny, I don't remember a preference towards masochism in your profile.

So based on your comments, maybe my profile should say, "I'm looking for a woman who is honest and has a nice butt." Oddly, that sounds about right. Only now I'm questioning whether the 'honesty' part matters that much...


AlbertPrince 57M

8/31/2005 3:03 am

Your profile reads fine to me, in fact it sounds like one I would write for myself.
That said, I deliberately kept my profile short. How many women read a guy's profile and then actually contact him? I prefer to keep my long winded stuff for sending in a message if I choose to contact a woman. They seem to prefer a decent length message rather than a "do you want to fuck" message.
But wherever you choose to say it, I wouldn't change it - honesty and humour seem to work best!
And if you find the woman with the desire to make you her gigolo, let me be your stand-in on your family days.

Good luck


HardlyYours4Now 52M

8/31/2005 2:48 pm

Albert -



Coming from you, that means something to me. Not sure what...but definitely something!

Thanks!


HardlyYours4Now 52M

9/1/2005 1:55 am

mizz - True enough. But I took a little off the top of the profile just the same. Thanks.


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