Would you?  

HardlyYours4Now 52M
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11/15/2005 6:37 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Would you?

If you think you might judge anyone for their responses here (assuming anyone is brave enough...), please don't read the responses.

Honesty doesn't happen when there is fear of judgement.

I hear some women say the fire starts in the attic, not in the lower floors. Assuming they aren't all trainers or officers in the Fire Department or EMS unit, I assume that has something to do with where attraction begins.

This isn't targeted at anyone, and I won't be offended by any responses. Send me an email if you don't want to respond here. I am truly curious.

If you were really drawn to someone at an intellectual level, has there ever been a point where you truly didn't care about physical attributes? Don't get hypothetical on me - what's your real-world experience when the mind is tempting, but the body leaves something to be desired?

XesSex03 50M/48F

11/16/2005 8:10 pm

Yes, there is a point where the physical is not that important, if the intellect & humor are appealing...But I have a tough time reaching it

Mrs. Xes

HardlyYours4Now 52M

11/18/2005 2:24 am

hb - Glad to hear how that worked out for you. That's cool.

Mrs Xessive - I appreciate your honesty. That's where I think most people really are, though there are many who just can't get past the visual, and a very few who don't seem to care.

nbtnt - Looking forward to reading it.

Sometimes people generalize about guys being "visual," and women more "emotional." But I'm not big on stereotypes. Maybe because there are one or two that people have applied to me over the years. I posted this not really expecting any responses at all - thanks for your responses and the two or three who emailed me directly.

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