So does anyone feel cheated by AFF?  

HardTenderPoet 61M
15 posts
8/6/2005 9:50 pm

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So does anyone feel cheated by AFF?

I have been a member of this site for about a year-in all honesty, I've had better luck getting into bed with someone new after going out and having a few drinks. However, I find that AdultFriendFinder is almost habit forming- have almost let my membership expire but then renewed at the last minute. I find it interesting most of the time- love chatting though, at times, I've been sure I was not visible in the rooms(I know you all know what I mean-the chatters all have a line of chat going and you wonder if they see your comments etc.) I wish it were possible for standard members to at least respond to emails(at least the initial ones anyway)That would seem to be better than wondering what their reaction is anyway-but I guess AdultFriendFinder figures most wouldn't upgrade if they did that. As for my question- as far as I'm concerned, no I don't feel cheated because I understand what I'm paying for when I plop down my money every 6 months. My only major complaint is getting an "Auto-reply" from someone I've emailed but never hear from them again. So what about you guys and gals? Feel like you get your money's worth?

ih8usrnames 40M

8/6/2005 10:53 pm

I never knew it wasn't possible for standard members to respond to emails. I know they can't e-mail people directly.

I think I've had standard members reply to me in the past. But I think theyre only allowed a certain number of replies a day.

I've gotten my money's worth so far in that I've been given what I was promised (noone ever promised that I'd find a sex partner just opportunities to contact others with similar interests), BUT given the lack of women on the site and, consequently, the low likelyhood of meeting someone with whom I'm compatible e-mailing other members just isn't worth the effort (and I've come to the belief that many intelligent women who are serious about meeting someone prefer to take the initiative and search out people to e-mail themselves). So I'm not intending on renewing my membership.

Enjoy writing the blog though

AtomicKisss 58M

8/6/2005 11:10 pm

I have definetely gotten my money's worth and I have only been a member for a little over a month (four contacts and a load of new cyber friends).

rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
8/6/2005 11:12 pm

You want a wakeup call do a search and count the women in your age range.Then do one for men.It's about 50 men to every woman where I live.I only visit to read the blogs.

muffjoy 61M/51F

8/6/2005 11:55 pm

So for we have not had a bad run. We have actually met one person face to face, and have several online chats with others. We are happy with this site.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
8/7/2005 12:40 am

I have been here a number of yrs now. I started paying just a few months ago. I now visit the site because I write the blogs and love the members here. Plus I like being able to read profiles. Meeting people is a tedious task. It is hard to determine who is for real. So many men seem to just want to fall into bed not really knowing if your a jack or jill.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

nightstogether 56M

8/7/2005 1:59 am

I have one of my Blogs here and occasionally surf through the available talent and the video links. As a standard, unconfirmed member I don't think you can get much from the service; but that's the whole point, paying members get more and effectively pay for AdultFriendFinder to continue and, hopefully, improve. Yes, I've had contacts with people in my area in a manner of speaking, but none that have had the courage to follow through and meet me. Yes, you probably can get more luck in a bar or a disco after a few drinks, no disputing that, but AdultFriendFinder is fun too, and you can wander through the large selection of people from the comfort of your own house.

Funnily enough, in my area there are more men looking for men than women looking for men...

private-intellectual (.de)

OralLuvr_Gentl27 38M
5 posts
8/7/2005 2:44 am

Last response I got from a standard member was that they are *LIMITED* to no more than 10 emails per day or something to that effect.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/7/2005 3:02 am

for now i'm a gold,gift from this delightful sitebut before as a happy standard for over a year,as a female being standard is easy and we can do plenty but first we have to be viwed regurly,so many views allows us the abilty to read profiles and mail people,were allowed to mail up to 10 a day,the only thing we cannot do is see cams,which even now i have gold i don't bother with that,its not my thing,so when i go back to being standard in September i will be happy just as i am now

I'm a

i'm here to stay

HardTenderPoet 61M

8/10/2005 7:52 pm

LOL- based on the above comments about standard members and email, I can only conclude I'm in alot worse shape than I thought-lol- as far as I know , I've never gotten a response from a standard member unless I upgraded to allow standard contacts- I do know I was always taken to the "upgrade Now" page whenever I I was a standard and tried to email anyone- ---yea I know There's a difference between initiating email contact and responding to one- - But like most of you I'm here to watch as much as anything- Now on with the show

kyokolapig 52M/52F

12/6/2005 12:05 am

She brought home a lot of pics including anal because she knew I wouldn't believe she gave up her ass. I love the 3 doggie anal pics with her hands holding her ass apart with his cock in at different lengths

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