Sex with a virgin?  

HardNNaughty71 46M
231 posts
6/21/2005 3:18 pm

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Sex with a virgin?

Even when I was younger and when I was a virgin myself, I have never had sex with a virgin (an admitted virgin anyways). There is a friend of a friend of mine that is an admitted virgin, and she wants me to be her first. Of course I said I'd definately do it, but the more I think about it the more I don't know . . . I have never had a virgin, and I have heard that the first time with them isn't the greatest. Plus I am only in it for the sex of course, so I don't know if someone "like me" should be the one to deflower her (aren't I all moral? LO.
Any opinions/insight would be appreciated.

great_lady2 36F
8 posts
6/21/2005 4:20 pm

Be easy on her cowboy. lol

Mccartney2003 38M
281 posts
6/21/2005 4:30 pm

The first virgin I was ever with was ok. All together the expierence is not that great. Your sleeping with someone that has no expierence at all, in general it does not feel all that great, the nerves of both people tend to be on edge. Some guy's get off on being the first and all. I don't and could care less. Give me a woman that knows what she wants and knows how to do it. But I've done the virgin thing before and had quite a expierence as well.
I had sex with this virgin about 12 years ago when I was a teen. We dated for around 8 months after that. Over the last 12 years this girl has grown up, had kids, got married, moved 5 states away, ect ect. I got married and had kids, made a life for myself.
She made every excuse possible to try to stay in touch and to see me when possible. It does not matter that this woman got married and has a good husband that supports her and their three kids. Or that over the years I was married. She still has some wacko idea in her head about her "First".
I get harassed all the time. It got worse when I got divorced. She had friends in the local home town follow up on me and feed her info. She makes offers for me to do her again and promises that her husban will never know.
Trust me when I say a woman never forgets her first. I hope you enjoy the girl because your never going to get rid of her once you break things in. Hell my ex wife still stalks her first and he does not want anything to do with her. He hates her, and she still bugs the living hell out of him. I have heard countless stories about other women doing the same things. I am not trying to be anti female. Just saying if I could do it all over again I never would of had the expierence.

Ana_6973 43F

6/21/2005 6:51 pm

Question is: How much of a virgin is she? When I was a "virgin", I had already played with toys and fooled around with a girl. I just had very little experience with men. I have another friend who has been with a virgin who was a virgin only in that she had never had vaginal sex. But then there is my friend who is now regretting getting involved with a virgin because he didn't realize how much work it was going to be breaking down all the barriers her innocence had created. He was raving about how much he loved her and wanted to be with her forever and now he is not so certain.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~

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