Ladies - help the men of this site understand  

HardNNaughty71 46M
231 posts
6/21/2005 10:41 am

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Ladies - help the men of this site understand

I have seen a few posts recently from men complaining that the ladies never reply to their e-mails/winks/etc, and they are obviously frustrated. I am sure they understand that women get more e-mails than men do on this site, but they might not know how many more you get and that you have to pick and choose the ones to reply to (ones with pictures, clever ones, informative ones, not just the "you look good" or "lets fuck" ones.
So a poll for the ladies, to help the men understand:

1) How many e-mails do you get from this site in a day/week?

2) How many winks do you get in a day/week?

3) How many times do you get added to someones hotlist in a day/week?

4) What can the average Joe add to an e-mail to you that would increase his chances of a response (attach a picture, give some more information, say what they are looking for, etc)?

To quote G.I. Joe - "Knowing is half the battle."

lilgirl1962 54F
4 posts
6/21/2005 12:09 pm

Hello folks,
for both sides of the fence, please understand. If you get winked or give the winking. do a follow up, by an e-mail or just checking up on them. People appreciate it.

Mccartney2003 38M
281 posts
6/21/2005 4:35 pm

Just don't be a obsessed psycho whiney looser.
Sometimes things take time. People have lives. People have jobs.
Sometimes I've found myself returning letters days later due to being a single father of two with a professional job and a busy life.
Give things time, if they don't reply after awhile it's safe to assume that they either did not like you, or that they just walked away from their account. Don't harass them. Let it be. If anything happens then it happens. Be yourself, be real, don't bullshit. I tell things like it is, upfornt. Sometimes it hurts sometimes it's great. People always try to sell themselves as someone they are not. Just be real,keep it real and chill.
Go with the flow. I have testimonials that prove this approach is the best.

LoveTraveling 57F
1 post
6/21/2005 4:37 pm

What I don't understand is why do men, who are looking at profiles, NOT pay attention to your preferences and STILL email you?? When I get email from someone that does not come close to my preferences, it goes to my filtered email. I don't even read them, I just delete, delete, delete!

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