You say BITCH, like it is a BAD thing.......  

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F
6876 posts
3/14/2006 10:21 am

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You say BITCH, like it is a BAD thing.......

It is also generally agreed that a Bitch is aggressive, and therefore unfeminine (ahem). She may be sexy, in which case she becomes a Bitch Goddess, a special case which will not concern us here. But she is never a "true woman."
Bitches have some or all of the following characteristics.

1) Personality. Bitches are aggressive, assertive, domineering, overbearing, strong-minded, spiteful, hostile, direct, blunt, candid, obnoxious, thick-skinned, hard-headed, vicious, dogmatic, competent, competitive, pushy, loud-mouthed, independent, stubborn, demanding, manipulative, egoistic, driven, achieving, overwhelming, threatening, scary, ambitious, tough, brassy, masculine, boisterous, and turbulent. Among other things. A Bitch occupies a lot of psychological space. You always know she is around. A Bitch takes shit from no one. You may not like her, but you cannot ignore her.

2) Physical. Bitches are big, tall, strong, large, loud, brash, harsh, awkward, clumsy, sprawling, strident,. Bitches move their bodies freely rather than restrain, refine and confine their motions in the proper feminine manner. They clomp up stairs, stride when they walk and don't worry about where they put their legs when they sit. They have loud voices and often use them.

3) Orientation. Bitches seek their identity strictly thru themselves and what they do. They are subjects, not objects. Thus Bitches prefer to plan their own lives rather than live from day to day, action to action, or person to person. They are independent and believe they are capable of doing anything they damn well want to. If something gets in their way; well, that's why they become Bitches. If they are professionally inclined, they will seek careers and have no fear of competing with anyone. If not professionally inclined, they still seek self-expression and self-actualization. Whatever they do, they want an active role and are frequently perceived as domineering. Often they do dominate other people when roles are not available to them which more creatively sublimate their energies and utilize their capabilities. More often they are accused of domineering when doing what would be considered natural by a man.

Our society has defined humanity as male, and female as something other than male. In this way, females could be human only by living vicariously thru a male. To be able to live, a woman has to agree to serve, honor, and obey a man and what she gets in exchange is at best a shadow life. Bitches refuse to serve, honor or obey anyone. They demand to be fully functioning human beings, not just shadows. They want to be both female and human. This makes them social contradictions. The mere existence of Bitches negates the idea that a woman's reality must come thru her relationship to a man and defies the belief that women are perpetual children who must always be under the guidance of another.

Therefore, if taken seriously, a Bitch is a threat to the social structures which enslave women and the social values which justify keeping them in their place. She is living testimony that woman's oppression does not have to be, and as such raises doubts about the validity of the whole social system. Because she is a threat she is not taken seriously. Instead, she is dismissed as a deviant. Men create a special category for her in which she is accounted at least partially human, but not really a woman. To the extent to which they relate to her a a human being, they refuse to relate to her as a sexual being. Women are even more threatened because they cannot forget she is a woman. They are afraid they will identify with her too closely. She has a freedom and an independence which they envy and challenges them to forsake the security of their chains. Neither men nor women can face the reality of a Bitch because to do so would force them to face the corrupt reality of themselves. She is dangerous. So they dismiss her as a freak.

Bitches are also uncomfortable around other women because frequently women are less their psychological peers than are men. Bitches don't particularly like passive people. They are always slightly afraid they will crush the fragile things. Women are trained to be passive and have learned to act that way even when they are not. A Bitch is not very passive and is not comfortable acting that role. But she usually does not like to be domineering either -- whether this is from natural distaste at dominating others or fear of seeming too masculine. Thus a Bitch can relax and be her natural non-passive self without worrying about masticating someone only in the company of those who are as strong as she. This is more frequently in the company of men than of women but those Bitches who have not succumbed totally to self-hatred are most comfortable of all only in the company of fellow Bitches. These are her true peers and the only ones with whom she does not have to play some sort of role. Only with other Bitches can a Bitch be truly free.

Bitches were the first women to go to college, the first to break thru the Invisible Bar of the professions, the first social revolutionaries, the first labor leaders, the first to organize other women. Because they were not passive beings and acted on their resentment at being kept down, they dared to do what other women would not. They took the flak and the shit that society dishes out to those who would change it and opened up portions of the world to women that they would otherwise not have known. They have lived on the fringes. And alone or with the support of their sisters they have changed the world we live in.

Thats my opinion and I am sticking to it!!!

H~N~B


dasher121 36M

3/14/2006 10:29 am

and a good and valid opinion to have.

I try really hard not to piss those people off (yes, this can be both men and women. Sometimes, the men are the worst lol.).

The Dude.


ToolsMulesFaker 40M
163 posts
3/14/2006 10:30 am

Long Live The Bitch !!


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

3/14/2006 10:33 am

dasher121-- I have gotten more shit off of the women on here then anything!!!


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

3/14/2006 10:37 am

randyquade-- And don't you forget it!!! Love ya!


spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
3/14/2006 2:18 pm

OMG..THEN....I REALLY AM A BITCH? (sigh of relief)and I appearantly come from a long line of BITCHES! This is why I read your blog H~N~B0414 it is always so informative. From now on when someone calls me a bitch I'll say thank you!!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!


firestarter665 42M/39F

3/14/2006 4:55 pm

So this is where I learn to be a Bitch now that I am a redhead. LOL


MrNuttz05 49M

3/14/2006 5:04 pm

You know, as I checked out your profile I see that one of your favorite movies is the 'Exorcist'.... That explains a lot


rm_herestill 56M

3/14/2006 6:55 pm

Dang !I think theres abuncha ya'll near me!


readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

3/14/2006 7:07 pm

FUCK'EN A...That shit said it ALL...There are parts of that Blog that means more to me than you know...Thanks for expressing what I have known for years but kept to myself...

You be THE Bitch of Bitchs, even though you can be such a DICK at times....Ready..AKA..God damn shes such a fucking BITCH..!!

Ready


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

3/14/2006 8:56 pm

spoldrtn812-- Thats what I teach my daughters!

firestarter665-- I will teach you the ways!!!

MrNuttz05-- Just think of a bj from a chick who can turn her head alllllll the way around!

readytolay_3-- Say it with PRIDE!!!


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