Whats in a Name.........  

6876 posts
5/8/2006 12:24 am

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5/15/2006 10:43 am

Whats in a Name.........

How many of you out there actually know my name?

I am known by all as HOT,or H~N~B, and some of my friends call me Queen, and a few call me Bitch!

And I know several who have said they don't want people to know their real names. Why?

The few who I know their names, I make it a point to not call them by thier given name,cause I don't know if they will mind or not.

So why do we keep our names so private?


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/8/2006 12:47 am


I'm not sure...I know some on here that will post their real names without hesitation. On the flip side, I know some that are afraid that someone will run their mouths and cause problems in the real world if their real names were discovered.

I only give people my real name in private and that's after a few exchanges, like emails or IMs...just being cautious, you know?


(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

5/8/2006 4:26 am

TRUST is hard won and you know it and for the very reasons NG61 stated above....I wish I could be freer about myself but there's to many wankers in my past who would HAVE to use a site like this for even the remotest chance at getting laid....Life is some what sane for me again and I just will not chance one of those LOSERs cause me and more shit than they already have. It sucks but fuck it thats life...Ready....T...


firestarter665 42M/39F

5/8/2006 4:37 am

I like to keep our names private only because Mr. Fire is on a fire department. If any of those guys were to find out that we are on here, it would cause uncomfortable conversation for Mr. Fire. When there is gossip around here, small town, it spreads like wildfire. If we were the type of people that were not involved in the town that we live in, we would have no problem posting face pics of us with our real names.

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
5/8/2006 4:51 am

My name is Maura. Nice to meet ya.


angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
5/8/2006 5:06 am

I know what you are saying here Melissa. And, you know, the ones here whose first name I know, I just feel a little closer to. But at the same time....everyone has their reasons for their anonymity.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
5/8/2006 6:08 am

Well I think I mentioned the reasons to you for my being so private. I show more on here in pics than I should and it is a big risk. People, well men ask me for my real name but I just don't feel comfortable telling some strange man my real name especially when he makes no attempt to post a picture or to tell me his real name.

I even had men asking me to make up names. I said, No that would be lying. Therefore it makes me wonder if the name they give me is real or fictitious.

About four guys and one woman on here have my real name. And I am trying to remember if I told you my name when we talked or not.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
5/8/2006 6:34 am

_____I can understand people not wanting to post their names; married people, schoolteachers, people in positions of power or public trust. Me...I'm nobody. William Dale King. Pleased to make your acquaintance, Melisa. Call me Bill. (or Dickhead, whichever you prefer.)


5/8/2006 8:05 am

Nightguy_1961-- But it is just your first name?

readytolay_3-- But how many people int he world have your same first name?

skyking412004-- I normally call you babe.

007sexy40plus-- Yeppers

LustGoddess2469-- Nice ta meet ya busty lusty

angelofmercy5-- Im sure they do.

firestarter665-- I can understand small towns.

Sweetpickles69 47F

5/8/2006 10:27 am

Hello, Michelle here! I have nothing to hide, so I don't mind people knowing my name.



expatbrit49 62M

5/8/2006 2:37 pm

for myself its just I dont want to put out too many clues. I do always sign emails with my actual name though

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
5/8/2006 3:12 pm

Privacy Sweetie..nothing more, nothing less...



5/8/2006 8:30 pm

LustyTaurus-- But it is just a first name, millions upon millions have the same first name. lol

expatbrit49-- Yea I sign my mail with my name too.

m1903a3 59M

5/8/2006 9:35 pm

I'm Rob. Most of my Blogging friends use their first names in their posts. Using last names, I think, would open the door to all sorts of creeps and stalkers.
All of my local friends know my full name, address, and phone number, and I don't have a problem sending that info in e-mails.


5/8/2006 9:57 pm

m1903a3-- Same here

mangomamiCT 42F

5/8/2006 10:11 pm

Because my name is downright embarassing !!!!!

I will never tell

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/8/2006 10:35 pm

Not a whole lot of people have the same name as I go by (my middle name) I've only met two people in my life with the same name. I'm named after a famous bear and it's not winnie or fozzie


5/8/2006 11:53 pm

mangomamiCT-- No WAY! Spill it now! You have to!

waerlookin4fun-- I hope it is not Smokie! LOL

rm_yukonpaul 51M
1120 posts
5/9/2006 3:20 am

I could care less if anyone knew I was on this site. But I understand the need for anonymity for others, even their first name.


5/9/2006 9:29 am

yukonpaul-- But if you don't show your face in your pics, whats the diff. if people know your name. And like me, I bet some don't put their real town down either. If they are from a small town.

digdug41 49M

5/9/2006 9:43 am

hey my names stephen but uh you know that already

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


5/9/2006 11:05 am

digdug41--LOL, yes,yes I do

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
5/9/2006 8:10 pm

My online friends refer to me as PJ my real time friends call me Paula both of which are drivitives of my birth name. I say who gives a fuck? I don't put up with a mf I don't want to be bother with so I could care less if they know my name!!!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/9/2006 10:13 pm

Yep it's Smokey, I got over the stigma a long time ago, but if ya wanna crack some jokes over it, it's ok with me. You should've seen me in grade school once my sister's let it out. Now I can't stand to be called by my given name which is Nancy.....so make some jokes because I find them funny as hell


5/9/2006 11:25 pm

waerlookin4fun-- AAAWWWWWW Little smokey I would never crack a joke on you!

Looking4sex44240 54F

5/10/2006 12:42 am

I'm Pam, nice to meet you. I have nothing to hide I'm not important.

rm_jgbkab 42M

5/10/2006 8:52 pm

According to US Search, there are only 3 other people in the US with my first name spelled the same way. I live in a city of about 50K ppl.

wildoats19622 54M
3484 posts
5/10/2006 9:02 pm

William John Rice, I go by Wild, Wild Bill, Wild Rice, and Wildoats19622

I'm paranoid. I feel like I'm at an AA Meeting. I have a problem I drink too much and tell people my name.

Melissa, I would never have guessed. I like you regardless of your name.

I get Wild at every oppportunity.


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.


5/10/2006 9:11 pm

tayninh2-- Funny cause my nick name is Fred! lol


5/15/2006 10:43 am

wildoats19622-- Dont look like a melisa do I?

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