Mr. HOT comes clean............  

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F
6876 posts
4/1/2006 7:28 pm

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4/3/2006 8:22 pm

Mr. HOT comes clean............

Well, Well, Well, After a year 1/2 of lieing his ass off, Mr. HOTNBOTHERED tells the truth.

Not that I didn't already know, but I was just waiting to hear it from him.

He asked me why I have changed, and why things are not the same as when we first got together.

So I start to laugh. And I asked him to think back to that HOT, YOUNG, THANG he just could not live without.

I told him, he was my world, no other man could ever turn my head, everything I did, I did for him. I bragged to all other women about how lucky I was.

Until I found the e-mails from his lover. Until he made me feel that all I did and felt for him was not good enough. I was not good enough.

But for a year 1/2 he stuck to the same story that they never had sex.

I had left him in Florida when I found out. And today I find out that while he was in Florida begging me to take him back, the Bitch was living in the house with him. I find out today that they had a 6 month relationship.

So I ask him, How could I have not changed? How can he think I could still love him like I did before?

And today as he was coming clean, not once did I cry, not once did I feel anything in my heart. He was crying. But I was numb.

But you will never guess where he is right now, He is out drinking with his friends. He was stressed and needed to get out.

Welcome to my life!

H~N~B HOTNBOTHERED0414


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
4/2/2006 12:20 am

I feel for you dear, I also have been hurt so much by the ex that I haven't shed a tear for anything she has done to try to hurt me in over two years. I'm playing Two songs for you tonite "It Can't Rain All the Time" by Jane Siberry from The Crow soundtrack And "Only Women Bleed" by Alice Cooper


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 1:46 am:
TY babe

DeepPinkk 62F

4/2/2006 6:21 am

Some men are dogs! No better than the four legged kind. Except the four legged kind don't know any better and won't lie about it.
There's a better one out there for you.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:45 pm:
My lover is way better!!!

loadeddice05 44M

4/2/2006 7:05 am

Sigh!!! Get a new life! Just get out!


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:46 pm:
Easier said then done!

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
4/2/2006 10:11 am

Crying because he thinks it will help his case, drunk so he can forget his troubles. Its all about him I think. Just worry about you for now.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:45 pm:
My thoughts!

readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

4/2/2006 10:15 am

Good for you LADY..!!!...After all you did for him, for him to do you that way and then think your so stupid as to buy into his bull shit is just FUCKING WRONG. You are deserving of so much more than his shit. So he can't handle being kicked to the curb, well boo fucking boo hoo...I'm with loadeddice05 screw the weasel, time to move on and find someone who will LOVE you the same way you LOVE...Ready

Ready


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:47 pm:

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
4/2/2006 10:38 am

Oh HNB.....what is it with these men? Mine did a similar thing....had a cyber relationship with a very young lady. And how could he think it wouldn't make me feel inadequate? How could they think it wouldn't change the way we feel about them? You deserve better than that. And if he is a liar...he IS a liar. Ever need to talk....let me know. We are here for you.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:47 pm:
He was truthful once, he told me he lies to me 85% of the time!

scorpmail66 50M
260 posts
4/2/2006 10:51 am

HNB
hiya sugar sorry to hear that, what an ass he is
out with his mates and needing a drink coz of stress.
Glad you aint gonna take him back their are many guys out their far more worthy of you, you will find the right man babes

huggs n loadsa kisses
scorps
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HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 2:48 pm:
I did take him back! Thats the stupid part!

rm_bluejade2832 42M/39F

4/2/2006 5:25 pm

f uck him crazy bas tard to mistreat such a love person as yourself were is he now I will kick his balls into his throat for you sweets

hang in there, you will find your soul mate sooner or later, there just might be alot more dick to put up with until you do

kisses melissa


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 8:28 pm:
Found my soul mate, just a lil too late, but i take what i can get ya know?

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
4/2/2006 6:24 pm

QUEEN.....I FEEL YOUR PAIN BUT BELIEVE ME THE UNIVERSE ALWAYS WORKS IT OUT....(for the record I am a morbid sorta girl) MY EX HAD A CHICK, A PREACHERS WIFE NO LESS, KEPT CALLING ME FUCKING WITH ME. I ASKED THE UNIVERSE TO REMOVE HER FROM MY LIFE......TODAY SHE IS A GUADRAPLEGIC.....A RESULT OF A CAR WRECK! MY EX .....WELL....HE KEPT GIVING MY DICK AWAY...AGAIN I ASKED THE UNIVERSE TO FIX IT......THE REMEFY....HE HAD COLON CANCER HE HAS TO WEAR A DIAPER AND USE VIAGRA!!!!!!! THIS IS TRUE..

I TELL YOU THIS TO SAY TO YOU IN MY OWN SICK TWISTED WAY....SIT BACK AND WATCH....THE UNIVERSE WILL REPAY HIM AND ALLOW YOU TO WATCH HIS PAIN FOR THE PAIN HE CAUSED YOU!!!!! I LOVE YOU FOR BEING SO RAW AND SHARING SO MUCH OF YOURSELF WITH US!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 8:27 pm:
I have burned bread on a few people, and it scared me, so I stopped saying anything about karma or that.
I had a guy leave me for his ex and I told his mother, one day he will be hurt worse then when he hurt me. One year later him and his ex had a baby die from SIDS. I kinda felt I wished it on him.

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
4/2/2006 9:18 pm

I'm sorry you have to deal with this stuff HNB...you been there for me all the way along this bloggy thing with all my whining and troubles...hugs to you and take good care...e-mail me if you like. My membership here has it covered.

lustytaurus


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/2/2006 9:29 pm:
Hell, I just got done readin yours, and if you need me, e-mail me!

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
4/3/2006 5:40 pm

_____I was of the impression that you and he had an "open" relationship. Guess I figured wrong.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/3/2006 8:23 pm:
I think he thought we did too! I don't even think it is a relationship now.

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