Let me ask you this............  

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F
6876 posts
5/3/2006 11:57 pm

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5/6/2006 6:40 pm

Let me ask you this............

MR.HOT and I got on the subject of his cheating and why.

Wanna know the answer? Well I am gonna tell ya anyways.

Cause he was curious. Curious of what you ask? Well I'm gonna tell ya........

He was curious about black women. The two (yes two now) that he cheated on me with were black girls. For some reason he had the idea in his head that sex with a black woman was different then with a white woman.

(The first one I caught him on was a different chick then the one I found out he spent two months fucking while I was in Kansas and he was in Florida.)

Ok, so other then the color of the skin WTF is the difference?

And he had made the comment several times that if he found out I had fucked a black man he would never touch me again.And when he was hittin up on men in the chat rooms they were black men. WTF is up with that?

WTF am I missing? Cause let me tell ya, I do for sure know how to fuck! And when I have fucked a man he knows he has been fucked!

So what do black women do different then white women?

But then my brother inlaw (who is black) says he would never have anything to do with a black woman. WTF is the difference?

I don't see the difference in people, black,white,purple,or green, it is all the same.

Am I missing something? Enlighten me someone!

H~N~B


LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
5/4/2006 5:23 am

I dunno. Hell, we're all pink on the inside. lmao

Lusty


angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
5/4/2006 5:42 am

    Quoting LustGoddess2469:
    I dunno. Hell, we're all pink on the inside. lmao

    Lusty
I loved lusty's answer here. I don't know either. But I'm going to come back later and read the other comments and see if I learn something new.


mycin62 54F

5/4/2006 6:41 am

Hell if I know! Like Lusty said, we're all the same on the inside.


rm_dragonheat23 51M
1158 posts
5/4/2006 6:50 am

I've been with black women, hispanic, and white. No difference that I know of. It's only skin.


007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
5/4/2006 7:58 am

Okay shall I enlighten you. lol well it has nothing to do with skin color for me. Trust me sex with certain men is definitely different. I cant say its better than the other but most certainly different. I have not had sex with all men so I can't speak on a wider area of men.

However I have not dealt with a black man in 21 years. I changed for personal reasons not for sexual ones but when I first encountered a white man it was different with him sexually than it had been with black men. But the physical and mental treatment I received from the white men were different than the black men had given me. The Psychological aspects will make you change too. When men cut you don't and make you feel worthless it will definitely make you not want to deal with them.

When I first fucked a white man with a hairy chest, that done it. I was straight up whipped-no shit. The hair did something to me. The various eye color the way he smelled the way he walked, talked, stroked my body with sweet caresses. At first I thought it was with just one white man but when I tried another one their demeanor was the same. I then thought that all white men was good. Up until I met my now ex husband who I just can't stand, I think he is one man I detest. The other white and black ones I detest are the racists.

I am not going to say I am better than anyone else in the bedroom but I can say that when I am in that bedroom I am making that man feel me, I am making him see what I am worth. I make him want to keep his eyes open when with me to enjoy the pleasure head on.

White men that I have spoken with who enjoys black women say the sex is different. I don't understand the difference myself. But this is what they have told me. However I have heard numerous times that white women like to rush through the sex there are certain things that are off limits, they complain and they don't like to experiment. I had a guy tell me that white women that he had dealt with were too prissy. they acted like sex was a chore and they just wanted it over with. Please don't shoot me for spilling this but I am only stating what I have been told. For me, Yes I like to take my time when with a man. I like to think that I am doing such a good job that he will come back over and over again, because I always make sex interesting, exciting, and spicy, with a little bit of sweet and sour mixed in.

Yeah I am pink on the inside too, and most men look at the outside as well, not all white men want black women and vice versa. Heaven knows I don't want every white man I see. But when I straddle my man and insert that cock, the vagina grab a hold of it like two dogs stuck together and I make the cock talk to the vagina. And when the cocks spits and sputters, like and old chevy, I know that they had a very pleasurable conversation.

Sorry for rambling.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
5/4/2006 8:08 am

For me it's a cultural thing... I don't care to date black or latino men.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


rm_yukonpaul 51M
1120 posts
5/4/2006 8:43 am

I have not noticed any difference, but my experiences were a long time ago.

I love your new photo!


readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

5/4/2006 9:06 am

Well hell heres my two cents worth...All I can say is true only for me. I have been with both and the ONLY reason I was ever disappointed in a white Man was he just SUCKED at fucking...The two Black Gentlemen I was interested in were just that CLASS ACTS thought and though. The one was a Motor-cycle cop and that may have had some thing to do with it but he was just so willing to wait and get to know me a WHOLE hell of lot more be for he even made a pass at me. BOY I'll tell ya once he did we fucked and fucked, we couldn't get enough of each other. And the second one I swear was a Black Burt Reynolds and VERY MARRIED, we were sitting on a friends couch when he looked at me and said I just have to go before I get myself into trouble, at first I didn't know WTF he was talking about but then as he went to leave he bent down and kissed me and said Oh I wish I could but I love my Wife to much to do Her that way...I don't believe skin color has any thing to do with it but it can be a thrill at times. I think its all in what type of Cultural influences They have towards Woman period and if they ever learned how to fuck a woman and fuck her well...Beside your old man should have gotten this shit out of his system BEFORE he married you, sounds to me as another LIMP-DICK excuse for fucking you over...Ready

Ready


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/4/2006 9:21 am

yukonpaul-- Well ty

007sexy40plus-- So what your saying is, Deep down inside I am a black woman? lol Cause girl I fuck like one!! lol


dragonheat23,mycin62,angelofmercy5,LustGoddess2469,PrincessKarma-- Well shit, you guys were alot of help! lol


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/4/2006 9:41 am

readytolay_3-- You could be right. Maybe! possibly! TY BITCH!


skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
5/4/2006 10:14 am

_____MRNUTTZ certainly looks better than me. Seems like he had a lot of women wanting to do him too. Hmmn. I wonder why. I've never been with a black woman. If a black woman with no kids wanted to have sex with me, I see no reason why I wouldn't enjoy being with her.


waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/4/2006 12:09 pm

I don't think there's a difference I see all people the same


digdug41 49M

5/4/2006 3:10 pm

After reading the other comments I must say that I got jungle fever like a mothafucka, I just luvs me some sno flakes lol but seriously I have had my fair share of black women too and spanish women and even got a couple of chinese girls too just call me the united nations and I savor all flavors. Now for your man to say to you if you toch a black man I'll never touch you is all about fear which I never understood coz back in the days all the slave owners fucked the female slaves hence the different hues of black americans you see now it makes me no nevermind if I am feeling you I am feeling you and I have had both white and black females make the dugs leg shake so whats the difference none and uh what lusty said cya sexy luv the booby shot

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


MrNuttz05 49M

5/4/2006 3:26 pm

OH BOY! I will come out of retirement for this one... And I will give you my point of view! Mind you, this pertains to sexual escapades, not love or relationships. That is purely one on one, just ask Janet Jackson & Jermaine Dupree... WTF?

It is 'probably' safe to say that I have had some experiences with many creeds & colors, I enjoy that... Color is a barrier that I got over with a long time ago... Now, mind you, to each his/her own... I loved 007's perspective, Ready's insight, & PrincessKarma response. There is NOTHING like the 'TRUTH'! But underneath all of the social issues, beyond the preferences, & forsaking the norm, I have the ULTIMATE answer... It's taboo... Plain & simple, simple & plain. We all want something that we have been conditioned on NOT having... If it's only once, so be it... If it's still @ the desire level, so be it... But we all want to take that swim in unchartered waters. Yep, it's all the same! But your sexual desires are different... How many strong natured females in everyday life like to have the male take total control during sex? It is safe to say a lot... But I will even take it to another level as well... What is taboo to one generation may be second nature to another... Maybe some of us old dogs CAN learn a new trick or two?...


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/4/2006 8:34 pm

MrNuttz05-- I know I could teach ya a thing or two!

digdug41-- Like the way you put it! TY

waerlookin4fun-- Me too !

longhairednikki-- Hey now the green ones need love too ya know! Those antennae could add something to it.

skyking412004-- I would do ya!


wildoats19622 55M
3484 posts
5/5/2006 12:30 am

I would agree that it's largely taboo. I've been with a black girl before. I dated one for almost three years. The only thing about her that was really different was that she was compulsive about bathing. She would take a bath four times a day, with an extra one before sex, and an extra one after sex. I used to tease her because she would use body powders before she would get dressed. She would apply a ton of powder and I would say, "What are you trying to do, Turn white?"

Wild

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HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/5/2006 9:36 am

wildoats19622-- Ya know, I am a compulsive bather. Well I do shower before sex and after, before work and after. Crazy huh. Not that the work and sex ever happen in the same day, not that I ever have sex, but if I did have sex I would bath before and after.


Looking4sex44240 54F

5/5/2006 12:39 pm

I don't see any problem with it, why should color matter.


MrNuttz05 49M

5/5/2006 4:04 pm

    Quoting Looking4sex44240:
    I don't see any problem with it, why should color matter.
GREAT ANSWER!
Looking4sex44240 Yeah! I would do her!


MrNuttz05 49M

5/5/2006 4:07 pm

    Quoting waerlookin4fun:
    I don't think there's a difference I see all people the same
And I oh so want to do her... waerlookin4fun


MrNuttz05 49M

5/5/2006 4:10 pm

    Quoting longhairednikki:
    I don't see the difference in people, black,white,purple,or green, it is all the same.

    Of course there is a difference!! The green ones have antennae - duh
longhairednikki May I? Was Prince singing about you?


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/5/2006 8:46 pm

MrNuttz05-- Ya know I am the jealous type right? Go pick up chicks in your own blog


waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/6/2006 12:35 pm

    Quoting HOTNBOTHERED0414:
    MrNuttz05-- Ya know I am the jealous type right? Go pick up chicks in your own blog
LMAO, omg that is too funny and just when I needed it the most thanks


MercuryGurl 33F

5/6/2006 5:38 pm

I am so used to it being the other way around (black man cheating with a white woman), this is a different perspective to me...

sounds to me as if the man you are with isn't worth your time or energy...i am certain that you can do better.

Black women and white women are not any different on a basic level, its just probably the "taboo" idea of it that drives your man to do that to you...

I hope things get better...


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

5/6/2006 6:40 pm

waerlookin4fun-- Your welcome

MercuryGurl-- Let me tell ya, I'm not worried much about it now, I do my own shit. lol


DIVISION77 39M
8328 posts
5/14/2006 1:51 pm

HNB,

I can only speak for myself, but I have a few things in general that I need from a woman aesthetically. I don't negotiate on those.

Pale skin, dark hair, dark eyes, thickness...

It's not so much as race, as much as the features that I like. I prefer pale women and yes, most of those are white.

It's not so much that I don't find other races attractive, but not in the same way. All things being equal I would always go for a pale white woman with dark eyes and dark hair.

The contrast in her colors is what attracts me. I have always preferred white women because of that.

There are other factors as well. I tend to get along in relationships with white women better than latinas or black women. I don't tolerate attitude.

DIV

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