I don't understand how some people think.......  

6876 posts
4/11/2006 10:25 pm

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I don't understand how some people think.......

In this day and age, why do so many people still have a bad opinions about on-line dating?

Everyone I have talked to at work thinks it is better to pick up a drunk fucker at a bar then meet a guy on-line!

Two women at work for example.......

Woman #1 Met a guy at a bar, both drunk, she did not even know him, only his first name. Took him home, fucked him, and never seen him again.

Woman #2 Met a guy in the parking lot of a store on friday, and saturday had him at her house eating her pussy and asking him for money to continue seeing her.

And they both said I was crazy for meeting a man on-line!

WTF, I know more about the men I have met on-line and that I talk to now, then they knew about the fuckers they met in person!

Like I told them, I e-mail for awhile, then it may move to a phone call, then if we hit it off, we meet in person, in a public place with a friend.

And everyone knows I am seeing mrrdking. And when asked where I met him, I get funny looks when I say "ON-LINE".

I just don't understand how people can still be so closed minded.


LustGoddess2469 49F  
2453 posts
4/11/2006 10:27 pm

Damn techno-peasants.


HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/11/2006 10:30 pm:

mycin62 54F

4/11/2006 11:10 pm

I hear ya!

HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/11/2006 11:24 pm:
It would be like a prostitute passing judment, don't ya think? lol

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/11/2006 11:47 pm


I think it's because too many horror stories have cropped up about women meeting psychos on line, so people tend to judge, never mind the fact that I've seen more psychos in bars and clubs than I care to admit.

I, along with several BDSM friends, have tried to impress the tactic of 'safe calls' for people meeting someone in real time for the first time. I was stunned when someone said, "Hey...I like to take risks..what's the big deal?" Their consensus was "I never use a safe call when I'm in the bar, why should meeting someone online be any different"

So let's see...I'm honest about being a Dominant male who likes to tie women up, and I'm judged...by those who gamble with their lives meeting people in bars and having sex...give me the preverbial fuckin' break!!!!!

Anybody who plays with me knows they're going to know all about me...with references...before the first time we sit for coffee!!!

Sorry for the rant, but I know where you're coming from....

NG61...leaving behind a red rose tied in black silk ribbon as an apology for getting on his soapbox.

HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/11/2006 11:55 pm:
No need to say your sorry, I love peoples inouts even if it is a rant. Thats what I blog for.
Soooo you like to tie women up?

HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/11/2006 11:56 pm:
That would be, I love peoples inputs, sorry typo!

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/12/2006 12:01 am

Yes...I like to tie women up..from time to time...along with other various activities

*points towards profile...hint hint*

HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/12/2006 12:16 am:
Going to profile as directed!

Looking4sex44240 54F

4/12/2006 1:10 am

I think it has alot to do with the kids, that get on here pretending there adults, meeting men/women then they get hurt or run away. I've heard it all, my mom watchs too much news. I've never met a guy just because he says lets hookup, we talk awhile online and the phone. I make it as safe as possible. chemistry is very important. I know a few ppl that are dead against online dating. There are some nice men on here.

HOTNBOTHERED0414 replies on 4/12/2006 1:55 am:
There are alot of nice men on here. If it wasn't for A.F.F I would be stuck in the state of assholes (kansas) and totally alone!

rm_yukonpaul 51M
1120 posts
4/12/2006 2:50 am

Woman #2 sounds suspiciously like a prostitute.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

4/12/2006 6:29 am

Damn she beat me to the punch...gaw what a BITCH...Ready



4/12/2006 9:40 am

yukonpaul-- Yeah, she told him if he wanted FREE pussy to stay home and fuck his wife!

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