No luck hunting Playmates & Friends , guess I'll blog  

HL4PLAY 55M  
204 posts
7/18/2005 10:02 pm
No luck hunting Playmates & Friends , guess I'll blog


In my vast experience writing blogs, ( done one before)on another site which shall remain nameless(ALT). I have discovered that writing blogs comes from a combination of too much free time coupled with experience and bullshit.
I think we all know, I certainly do, that I really should be with one or more of the beautifully women from AdultFriendFinder, giving them endless amounts of extreme sexual pleasure, instead of writing this.Obviously that's not whats going on this very minute. (Damn It)
Well as I said before this is all bullshit and experience, so please by all means sit back relax and experience some of my bullshit!
As much time as I spend searching profiles, reading them in their entirety ( ok easy with some of the 3 sentence ones) and endeavoring to write " the perfect email" ( it doesn't exist) to the elite few that I hope might find me acceptable. One (well myself) would think that my "dance card" along with all of my evenings would be filled. Obviusly not the case (damn it again) All that research, reading and writing and I barely get any reply. When I do they are either: auto-reply (oh thank you), asking about a picture or something similar.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to come to the rather obvious conclusion that somethings not working out here! So where am I fouled up. What could the problems possibly be? Poor choices or poor taste in women. No I've always had impeccable taste in women. Bad timing, well I've suffered from that all my life. Maybe they don't take me seriously. (Possible) I wonder could it be something on a somewhat deeper level? Say maybe destiny has taken a hand in this and I just haven't messaged the right ones yet. Well if destiny has taken ahand in it, I wish she'd hurry up as I'm getting alittle tired of taking myself in hand as it were. Hey that reminds me of the first time I had sex I was all alone and scared to death. That's funny I don't care who you are. (Larry the Cable Guy)
A lesser man might get down on all this and even give up. That's not me. I shall endeavor to percervier being the tenacious sob that I am . So it may take alittle more time but sooner or later this will all work out. On the brighter side, atleast I haven't suffered the ultimate rejection: my hand hasn't fallen asleep before I was finished. Thank goodness.
Hey I noticed, as I read some of the profiles, that some of these ladies have testimonials from guys that have never even met them . Now how in the hell does that work? When I see things like that my bullshit detector( yes it sets right behind my over sized pussy detector in my brain) sounds an alarm. How do you give a testimonial about someone you have yet to meet. Could this be a new way of sucking up? Well it's beyond me!
Well that's about enough for now. Hope someone else got some small amount of enjoyment out of this.(Fat Chance) Hopefully I'll get better as I go along.(FatChance) Ok maybe some of these beautiful, near sighted, no taste in men what so ever , ladies will take pity on me the writer or you the reader and take up some of the free time on my hands. Hey hey a positive attitude is a good thing and yes I know it probably should be rooted in reality but the outlook is not as bright that way!
Take care all
H L

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HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
8/24/2007 7:30 pm

    Quoting rm__loveplay:
    Just stopping in to support your bloggin efforts. In truth I think this might be a good way to put yourself out there if you're looking to meet someone through this site. I would bet it's better than emailing.

    Good luck to you!!
And I thank you for your support!

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rm__loveplay 50F
801 posts
8/23/2007 9:25 pm

Just stopping in to support your bloggin efforts. In truth I think this might be a good way to put yourself out there if you're looking to meet someone through this site. I would bet it's better than emailing.

Good luck to you!!


HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
8/21/2007 9:14 pm

    Quoting CuriousAnd2Shy:
    Ok, you caught me. I have way too much free time as I live to blog.

    Thanks for the laugh,
    2Shy
No problem I love to give women fun! Thanks for taking the time to read and comment. I like your blog so keep right on bloggin'

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HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
8/12/2007 1:22 pm

    Quoting intrepid195757:
    Hi HL4Play!!! I saw your comment on BustyBetty's post and noticed you had a low post number so that's why I'm here.... I like to encourage others who may be somewhat new to this cuz I am!!!

    I started on July 4th and I'm so addicted now that its hard to keep me away, lol

    I very much enjoyed your read and totally agree with you on the testimonials... kinda defeats the purpose of a testimonial if you haven't even met yet, doesn't it!!! Oh well, I'll judge not, but you did bring up great point!!!

    Don't get discouraged Ok? It is so much harder on you men... I feel so sorry for all you single men cuz lets face it, the women have so many more advantages especially if you're a standard member...

    If soo many people look at your profile (I think it's around 10 to 15 in a 2 or 3 day period) you get to receive the ability to look at 50 profiles.... so I highly reccommend you trying something like hotlisting all the beauties you like and hopefully you'll have enough come look at your profile.... anyway... that's just one of the tricks we learned being standard..... also, build up your points and you can earn a silver membership for a month... that's also what we did.... and it is amazing how many more people respond to us being a silver... anyway sorry to ramble on....

    I will be back!!! Write some more OK?!!!

    I hope you have a great weekend! Hey, by the way, You're are a very attractive man and I think you'll do great.... just give it time
    I'm gonna send you an email, if you don't mind!!! See ya later!
Thanks Much for taking the time to read and comment! I don't know if you've noticed but this particular post was written over 2yrs. ago with little response until recently. The post was written entirely in jest as I'm all about having fun! Discouragement doesn't enter into my thinking,however I am brutally honest with myself and others. I uaed to have a Gold membership and will again when I have time to make use of it. I will,now that there is a little interest, add posts to this blog as time allows. Once again thanks for your interest

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intrepid195757 59M/63F

8/11/2007 12:35 pm

Hi HL4Play!!! I saw your comment on BustyBetty's post and noticed you had a low post number so that's why I'm here.... I like to encourage others who may be somewhat new to this cuz I am!!!

I started on July 4th and I'm so addicted now that its hard to keep me away, lol

I very much enjoyed your read and totally agree with you on the testimonials... kinda defeats the purpose of a testimonial if you haven't even met yet, doesn't it!!! Oh well, I'll judge not, but you did bring up great point!!!

Don't get discouraged Ok? It is so much harder on you men... I feel so sorry for all you single men cuz lets face it, the women have so many more advantages especially if you're a standard member...

If soo many people look at your profile (I think it's around 10 to 15 in a 2 or 3 day period) you get to receive the ability to look at 50 profiles.... so I highly reccommend you trying something like hotlisting all the beauties you like and hopefully you'll have enough come look at your profile.... anyway... that's just one of the tricks we learned being standard..... also, build up your points and you can earn a silver membership for a month... that's also what we did.... and it is amazing how many more people respond to us being a silver... anyway sorry to ramble on....

I will be back!!! Write some more OK?!!!

I hope you have a great weekend! Hey, by the way, You're are a very attractive man and I think you'll do great.... just give it time
I'm gonna send you an email, if you don't mind!!! See ya later!

Sometimes we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.


bustybettyboop 50F  
59325 posts
8/11/2007 6:45 am

ohhh and btw....i have lots of those kinds of testimonials..not including my blogger friends...i add them ...out of politeness but one of these days i need to get rid of the ones that just say things like,"i just wanna titty fuck ya!" lol! {=}and no that doesn't give them a better chance of meeting me..lol!

..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?


HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
8/7/2007 5:57 pm

    Quoting bustybettyboop:
    hang in there! {=} i agree with whisper! {=} enjoy blogging! hugs,busty{=}
Thanks Ms.Boop for both your comment and reading my blog!

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bustybettyboop 50F  
59325 posts
8/7/2007 8:23 am

hang in there! {=} i agree with whisper! {=} enjoy blogging! hugs,busty{=}

..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?


HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
7/30/2007 9:32 pm

Well thank you both for your opinion fo visiting my blog.

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cowboywanted2day 45F

7/30/2007 12:16 pm

Honest and straightforth - no better way to be.

Lets Save A Horse and Ride Each Other,
cowboywanted2day


HL4PLAY 55M  
1905 posts
7/29/2007 12:26 pm

    Quoting Whispersoftly5:
    I enjoyed rerading this and hope your hand does not fall asleep on you!

    You're probably not doing anything wronge - the women at this site get hundereds of e-mails a week, so there's a lot of competition.

    The part about testimonials from people who have not met cracked me up! Some of the testimonials are from blogging friends just being sweet, but I think you hit it on the head - it's another way of trying to get a person's attention. I have a slew of testimonials from folks I've not met and some I have.

    Keep plugging away and have fun! Thank you for visiting my blog and the comment you left! {=} {=} {=}
Thank you for your compliments and well wishes! This particular post was written in jest over 2yrs. ago and you are the first to respond to it! You need not than me for reading or responding to your blog. As long as it contains both eye candy and mind candy and I continue to have a little freetime on my hands it's a given that I'll keep visiting!

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Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
7/26/2007 7:54 am

I enjoyed rerading this and hope your hand does not fall asleep on you!

You're probably not doing anything wronge - the women at this site get hundereds of e-mails a week, so there's a lot of competition.

The part about testimonials from people who have not met cracked me up! Some of the testimonials are from blogging friends just being sweet, but I think you hit it on the head - it's another way of trying to get a person's attention. I have a slew of testimonials from folks I've not met and some I have.

Keep plugging away and have fun! Thank you for visiting my blog and the comment you left! {=} {=} {=}


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