Too Sexually Liberated!!!  

Gypsy329 46F
124 posts
3/30/2006 2:29 pm

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5/8/2006 9:19 am

Too Sexually Liberated!!!

Yesterday I had my first conversation with a supposedly interested AdultFriendFinder member. This person presented themselves as a very straight foward, no games, no bs kind of guy. Ya know the whole "I don't wanna waste a lot of time with meaningless chit-chat" type. One of them. No problem, while I like to make friends that I can enjoy sexual encounters with, I am not opposed to hooking up with a hottie and getting down to business (if the right attraction/chemistry exists). I let him know all about what I like, dislike, am/am not looking for. Next thing I know, I'm getting the "well we need to get to know each other first" speech. I know this speech quite well. I wrote it. Some of you guys have heard or read it.
So there I was with the tables turned on me listening to a guy whine about not moving to quickly. Then he actually asked me if i ever worried about what people thought about me. WTF!!! Hell no, i told him. I know what i am....A tiger doesn't change his stripes...It's not what ya do but who ya are. I'm the ethical slut. So what??? But wait...what happened to skipping the chatter and doing what we came to do? I'll tell ya what happened...I happened. Once again, i've frightened some poor soul away with my overpowing sexual prowess.

So many men tell me their fantasies about wanting to have be with a totally unhibited woman not afraid to take the lead but when it comes down to it ya never follow thru. It's like saying ya wanna be spanked and when i pull out my favorite paddle i gotta drag ya out from under my bed. What's that about?

Do you guys really know what ya want or are ya just saying what ya think the ladies wanna hear?
If ya can't be honest on AdultFriendFinder about your sexual desires and needs how the hell do ya expect to get it?

Tell us what you really want and how ya want it.

redmustang91 57M  
8571 posts
3/30/2006 3:13 pm

Interesting... I like to feel a little bit comfortable with the lady first before taking our clothes off. Like a lunch and some emails, phone calls, etc. Too fast and I don't feel enough connection. I like to have some suspense and build up a little sexual tension. So I am not the type to really feel that comfy with a prostitute, or someone too quick for me. I am not judging others and prefer someone who knows what they are looking for. I just don't want to rush the experience. Too slow is not good either....

willpleaseu38 55M

3/30/2006 3:47 pm

That's a shame...sorry the fella didn't live up to your expectations!
Hope it doesn't ruin it for the rest of us.

norprin5 55M

3/30/2006 4:03 pm

happy belated birthday, Gypsy!

and don't take it too hard - it's just a number

concerning your question today? i wish i lived closer - no such thing as too sexually liberated

King Nor XVIII

Gypsy329 46F

3/30/2006 4:20 pm

75 Views in just a couple of hours but only one knows what he wants...hmmmmm

golfn6466 52M

3/31/2006 5:42 am

Oh I'd have to agree......fortunately I don't have that problem. I think some guys want to have the whole chat thing if they are either thinking they can't satisfy you or they've seen you and are thinking "damn I want to marry this chick!".

I'd just love to bend you over.....anywhere!

Phil37015 60M
1 post
3/31/2006 9:54 am

Forget the chatting, if there is chemistry there, lets get down to business darlin.

KarezzaMagick 64M
165 posts
3/31/2006 8:25 pm

Interesting question, Gypsy.

I want it "all," but...
Timing is everything.

Short answer, eh? But it's the most precise answer you'll get. And it probably applies to everyone.

rm_cruser1965 51M
1 post
4/9/2006 8:46 am

Apparently we need to meet. Its the same way for me except its the lady hiding under the covers.

NCBlackSnake 51M
43 posts
5/6/2006 5:20 am

I have no problem with a woman who knows what she wants. And I will let her know what I want, when I know what it is!
But seriously, it depends on the woman and how we interact. If I'm in the mood for a one niter, and that is all she is after, or just one of those nameless fucks, then why chat? Get it straight and find each other. But if I'm in the mood for a friend with benefits (which is most of the time, because I prefer to have some idea of whose juices I'm licking out of her) then there has to be some chatting and getting to know each other. So I don't think that it is men (or women) for that matter that don't know what they want. It is more like we both are trying to satisfy a need, but don't know if the other person is cool with what we have in mind, at that second.

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