Needing to be touched...the right way!!!  

Gypsy329 46F
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4/9/2006 12:05 am

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5/26/2006 7:48 pm

Needing to be touched...the right way!!!

It's been a few days since my last entry. I've been doing this whole introspection thing lately.

It seems like everyone's getting on my nerves all the damn time. So...I can't be something wrong with everyone.

So...why the hell am I so cranky?

After a dry spell, I did finally got some attention and it was pretty damn good, but I still am not satisfied. So, what the hell's missing?...I've been asking myself. The only answer I can come up with is intamacy, real intamacy.

I NEED soft passionate body yearns for the touch of strong but gentle hands...I need candlelight and soft music...I need a milk bath for two and a bottle of vintage wine...I need to hear sweet nothings whispered in my ear...

The reality is that I can easily get myself off...
or even find a sex partner (with or without AdultFriendFinder) but the kind of chemistry that leads to real intamacy is much harder to attain.

And all this time I thought I just needed a good stiff dick and a ready-to-please tongue... And now it seems I was a bit off track for this was only what I wanted.

So...What is it that makes our wants and needs so different, sometimes? Have ya ever wanted something really bad...and when ya got it knew it wasn't what ya needed?

Ever denied yourself something (or someone) ya really needed for what ya thought ya wanted?
How did it turn out? Were you happy? Satisfied? Disappointed? Did you ultimately go after what ya knew ya needed in the first damn place? Was it too late to turn back?

Tell me...
How do your needs differ from your wants?
How the hell do ya know the difference at any given moment?

Gypsy329 46F

4/10/2006 7:33 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    Its like be careful what ya wish might not really be what ya wanted all along..Ya never know the difference.Thats what taking a chance is.Till we touch a person,until we connect,how will we know if they are what we really needed or wanted?
Very interesting MzHuny...So what do ya do if the person you've touched isn't what ya want or need?

upinurbox 50M

5/22/2006 7:03 pm

Damn You need your own sex site!

You are so " Cerebral" .....You ask some great penetrating
(thought penetrating) Questions! I've read most of your Blogs as you insisted that one do to get to know you....So To answer one of your question's above. I have definitely been there. When you asked about wanting something so bad and then getting it. Wow it sux realizing that the fantasy was truly the Quest! All that, imagining how wonderful it would be, or how good it was and wanting it again only to capture that which you've desired....suddenly the thrill is gone. was it the chase/or desire that was the true thrill? Or maybe you're insatiable. It's time for a new challenge....maybe you need someone who thinks like you...who also can not commit to emotional relationships because of fear...... I once read that "everything you want, is on the other side of fear" Perhaps you need to find that one person to hold hands with and challenge fear as you walk to the other side together.

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