Girls like me...guys like you  

Gypsy329 46F
124 posts
3/23/2006 8:10 pm

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5/8/2006 9:17 am

Girls like me...guys like you

This entry was intended to be about what number of sexual partners is too many. But as I began to type I received a phone call from a guy friend. This is a man that practically worships the ground I walk on and never passes up an opportunity to let me know that he "really likes me". Normally, I just laugh it off and tell him that it's only lust and not to read too much into it. But I figured it was time to be totally, 100% honest about why I will not so much as let him touch me.

The reason: He's one of the good guys and I'm pretty much a slut.

That's right, I said it. Although my sex life is currently barren it's only because I haven't made many new friends since I moved to this new town and I had been spending all my energy wanting someone else. But it's only a matter of time before I'm right back into the "swing" of things (pun intended). I'm into just about anything but monogomy! I've tried it but I've got an insatiable sexual appetite and I bore rather easily then I start looking for my next big adventure. Don't get me wrong, I have recently learned that if I really want to be, I can be with only one lover but it's taken me all my life to meet someone I was willing to go that distance for! Chances of it happening again anytime soon are real slim.

Women like me don't need square guys who want Donna Reed/ Betty Crocker/ Martha Stewart wives. Everytime I have attempted to have a relationship with a "square" guy it ended because he didn't trust me based on my past. You know the whole "You can't make a whore a housewife" thing. The truth is that you can but you gotta accept that she's a whore (or former whore). Can you handle bumping into men on the street that she's probably fucked the same way she does with you? How will this make you feel?

I want to be able to answer the question, "Who was that?" with complete honesty and say, just a guy I used to fuck a long time ago but he's ancient history...or even...He's the guy I was telling you about who used to tie me to my bedposts and fuck my ass until my whole body convulsed. How many of you guys could deal with that? Would you get jealous and mad or would you whisper a reminder in my ear of what you did last night?

Ideally, I'd like to have a man who's so great in bed that I seldom have time to get bored but when I do we can either look for a third party or he'll let me go have a little fun and then tell him all about my exploits. Now that's the kinda guy that girls like me really need!


Gypsy329 46F

3/27/2006 8:51 am

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1THICKDIC007 59M
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4/16/2006 11:19 am

THIS I A REPLY TO AN OLD ENTRY THEIR ARE MEN OUT THEIR LIKE THAT WE DO LET GO AND ALLOW OUR WOMEN TO EXPLORE BUT WE ALSO MUST BE FREE TO DO THE SAME THIS IS THE PART THATS GETS TRICKY FOR AT TIMES THAT MAY CAUSE TROUBLE HOW YOU HANDLE IT IS WHAT CAN MAKE OR BREAK A RELATIONSHIP AND FRIENDS MUST I MEAN MUST BE OFF LIMITS THAT CAN KILL THE THRILL QUICK BUT A LITTLE SAFE PLAYING AROUND CAN BE VERY GOOD
NOW THAT WAS SAID BY A MAN WHO KNOWS!!!!!


Gypsy329 46F

4/16/2006 1:26 pm

1THICKDIC007

First, thanks for reading the older posts...Second thanks for letting me know that there MAY be a man somewhere out there that would be right for me.


NCBlackSnake 51M
43 posts
5/6/2006 4:57 am

I'm one of those square good guys, interested in a sista who is looking for other things. For now, I'm dealing with it, but, like the guy you talked about, am trying to flip the script. There are men out there that can accept who you have been and are. If the man is comfortable with himself and what you and he have, then he should be able to deal. Especially if he knows how things stand from the beginning with and there is communication. He SHOULD be able to make your toes curl and have you howling at the moon in passion, so that he KNOWS that you aren't thinking about someone else, or, if you do meet an ex, that the ex pales in comparison. How do you find a man like that? I don't know. But he's out there. Like they say, there is someone out there for everyone.


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