What do women really want to know in the emails.  

GuyFromEK 49M
174 posts
7/23/2006 9:32 am

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What do women really want to know in the emails.

When a woman receives an email and most probably go straight into the bin. So what am really asking is what stands out to the women. This has probably been asked lots of times but as I am relatively new to this site i think i need some education.

Feel free to comment or post random thoughts



angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
7/23/2006 12:46 pm

Welcome to the blogs! First of all, I like the title to your blog. I think this is a good forum for getting to know others....better than email at times. Visit other blogs...comment there....and who knows what may develop from there. I hope you'll stop by mine and say hello some time!


GuyFromEK 49M

7/23/2006 4:48 pm

Why thank you, I will definately look tomorrow and leave a post for you and defo say hello.


tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
7/24/2006 8:16 am

To actually answer your question mate. When I was looking for someone I preferred emails that didn't ask for anything. I wanted a man to not talk crudely to me. I want a man who will just say hi, I'm here, I like the look of you and do you like the look of me? If the woman does like the look of you she can take it from there.

You will meet more people now that you have joined our group...we are active but remember we meet up as friends and if ya find more then good luck to you.


Bye everyone, it was a blast


GuyFromEK 49M

7/24/2006 10:47 am

Thats what I thought but wanted a bit more confirmation, I am not the crude type of person. As for the meets, they most certainly interest me mainly because all my mates are married and turning into bores who never go out and I never pass up a social occasion


rm_lustygirl71 45F

7/25/2006 3:02 am

For me the mails which are genuine and take an interst in me as an individual, I like to see that someone has made an effort. Not interested in ones that are so obviously cut and pasted time and again, they are the ones who have obviously never read the profile and just send the same old tripe out to everyone. I also like when people make a referance to something i've said in my profile.


GuyFromEK 49M

7/25/2006 4:52 pm

    Quoting blonde367:
    big long essays on how they can make me cum all night go in trash,just being copied and pasted to everyone, someone who mentions something in my profile and starts off by asking to chat, usually get answered,but blogs are a great way to get to know ppl, put the ones u like onto ure watched blog list and go back and comment when they post if its a topic that interests u,,,, welcome
Thank you for the response, and to be honest this is what I am doing and no not to lots and lots of different profiles just to the ones that interest me but yet to receive a response. Not to worry tho because whats for you wont go by you


spielmitmir72 44F

8/3/2006 2:34 am

mmm u shid check out invictus256 blog: Does no mean something else on AdultFriendFinder?

I was the friend who gave him the inspiration for that blog, red the messages recieved, they are hilarious and definately not what us girls want to hear, also check out lustygirls blog on TWATS and tell us wot u think about joopdog3. . . . . . . mmm we r so lucky there r so many classy men out theere!! lol


GuyFromEK 49M

8/3/2006 4:23 pm

    Quoting spielmitmir72:
    mmm u shid check out invictus256 blog: Does no mean something else on AdultFriendFinder?

    I was the friend who gave him the inspiration for that blog, red the messages recieved, they are hilarious and definately not what us girls want to hear, also check out lustygirls blog on TWATS and tell us wot u think about joopdog3. . . . . . . mmm we r so lucky there r so many classy men out theere!! lol
Yeah thanks spielmitmir7, I already saw lustygirls post on twats and did post on it myself, send page, thoug it wqould be nice to get told no rather than ignored, I understand how some of the idiots on here are. Which is why I keep thinking why am I on here, perhaps the honest people are too quiet on here and the idiots like joop need to be louder, but then we are who we are and cant be anything else


spielmitmir72 44F

8/4/2006 5:04 am

i think the honest people are quite few and far between,I kno the site is full of non genuine females too and the number of guys far outweigh the females, so i understand why the guys get a bit irritated, we are inundated with messages and the majority are just crude filth, so we like it when sum1 takes the time to introduce themselves and have a general chat rather than babbling on about what they want to do to u! the nice ones always get a reply!


GuyFromEK 49M

8/4/2006 10:44 am

I really shouldnt type on here when I am tired, the typos are terrible.

I have tried the hello am frankie emails too, never get a response either, but got round to figuring out if I dont get a response then do I really want to know that person or perhaps this is the wrong place to look for what I want. The search goes on and on.

Think I need to start a new blog, why is it I always think of something away from computer but sitting here my mind goes blank.


RubyRedPetal 44F

8/5/2006 3:28 am

i think they have said it all!! lol. when i have read an email i look at the profile. I detest the ones that have loads of 'prefer not to say' or look like they are professionaly written. I know profiles are horrid to write but i like ones that show a bit of personality.

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GuyFromEK 49M

8/6/2006 9:02 am

    Quoting RubyRedPetal:
    i think they have said it all!! lol. when i have read an email i look at the profile. I detest the ones that have loads of 'prefer not to say' or look like they are professionaly written. I know profiles are horrid to write but i like ones that show a bit of personality.
Ruby have a look at mines and if you think any changes need to be made then let me know, I am just not very good at selling myself and always struggle making profiles.

thank you


GuyFromEK 49M

8/7/2006 6:54 am

    Quoting sweetbabydee07:
    Profiles are horrid to write? Whaaat? I liked writing mine, I got a laugh out of it. And I figured if I couldn't be assed writing something half decent why should I then expect anyone to read it. I don't much like one line profiles, they seem kinda lazy.

    Ok, emails. What stands out to me? Something that is more than just a couple of lines. Something that is vaguely grammatical at least. Something that doesn't sound like a form email that has been sent to 50 other women. Something that sounds like the guy has actually read my profile. Something that shows a bit of personality. And I like to see a photo too.

    That's not too much to ask, is it?
I appreciate what you said however, like most people on here I am a standard member and cannot read many profiles, although every now and then AdultFriendFinder seems to let me view them at indiscriminate times.

As for the emails, perhaps the ones I have sent, being all of 5 in total, sending the photo would have been a good idea, will take that one up next time. Dont actually think I said profiles are horrid to write, I did say I have problems selling myself at times. Although upon reading my profile I dont seem to say a great deal in the places where you can put your individual style, some thought needed lol


GuyFromEK 49M

8/8/2006 3:23 am

    Quoting rm__susie1971:
    oh and a final thing... the reason I don't tend to reply to emails which don't interest me.. is cos when I do ... I get rude emails back .. along the lines of "how do you know when we haven't met.. or .. far worse!
Thank you susie, was a very nice post, I am aware of most of what you said, and it does look like the idiots of the site make it harder for the genuine people on here, but such is life.

I will post oin your blog later am sure.

Take care
Frankie xx


scotsbustybabe33 55F

8/14/2006 9:45 am

Oh Susie, you are spot on!!!!!!!!

As for your responses Mr Ek, i just sent you one complimenting you on your assets and can i see your botty?


GuyFromEK 49M

8/14/2006 2:01 pm

well now thats the secret question lol but for yer info i dont have any photos of me bum


GuyFromEK 49M

8/15/2006 12:26 pm

i seriously dont have any pics of me bum lol but anyone who wants to volunteer taking em is more than welcome lol


GuyFromEK 49M

8/15/2006 12:57 pm

Oh an I aint ever sent a dik pic lol its a bit erm silly I think cos it aint like its the dik talking to ya


GuyFromEK 49M

8/15/2006 1:19 pm

lol well i sent you a mail so have a look at it and follow the instructions lol


GuyFromEK 49M

8/16/2006 10:04 am

Well guys will add folk just to see if they can keep track of people, or perhaps they are serial networkers, as for why me just replying am thinking its because its my blog lol

I may be wrong and call me frankie lol


rm_perfect3453 55M

8/17/2006 4:13 pm

well Glesgah ' i'll rely as well when i email i NEVER send a pic of my dik or butt as i dont want to put people off right away lol. I also never cut and paste cos it always leads to tears in the end. I try and be honest, stick in a something that i hope is humourous and hope that i get a reply. if you cut and paste it really shows and if someone replied to that i dont think i would want to know them.

oh and a bit of honestly never goes wrong lol


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