Tring to work things out.  

Guy1378Fox 45M
64 posts
2/1/2006 9:51 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Tring to work things out.


Well...
I sat down with my girlfriend last night and we had a long talk. We have decided to try and make some changes and improve our relationship. I want this to work.
Ironically, she was trying to make it easy for me to leave because that’s what she thought I wanted to do, but the reason I was thinking about leaving was because of how distant she had become and how she was treating me. She did not want me to feel trapped like she had felt with her ex. We came up with a short list of things to work on.
A line from an old Hewey Lewis and the News song comes to mind. “Let me go, or make me want to stay.” My thoughts on this are if you want them to stay let them know how you feel. Try to make things work. Then, if they still want to go then let them. If the two of you really cannot be happy together then you should look for happiness elsewhere.

IF THIS IS IT

(Snipped)
Girl don't lie
just to say my feelings.
Girl don't cry
and tell me nothing's wrong.
Girl don't try to make up phony reasons
I’d rather leave than never believe...

If this is it,
please let me know.
If this ain't love you better let me go.
If this is it,
I want to know.
If this ain't love baby
just say so…

you've been thinking,
and I’ve been drinking.
We both know that it's just not right.
Now you're pretending
that it's not ending.
You'll say anything to avoid a fight.
Girl don't lie
and tell me that you need me.
Girl don't cry
and tell me nothing's wrong.
I'll be alright one way or the other.
So let me go or make me want to stay...

If this is it,
please let me know.
If this ain't love you better let me go.
If this is it,
I want to know.
If this ain't love baby
just say so…

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
2/1/2006 11:30 am

*HUGS*

good that you guys talked and are getting things worked out I wish you the best.


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