2nd Fiddle? I think not  

Greekgirl4u06 39F
1676 posts
8/6/2006 12:11 am

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2nd Fiddle? I think not

How many times have you guys met a girl or you girls met a guy and they made you feel you were number one and the best thing since sliced bread, just to find out you were really the last in line on a long list of people they got in touch with when it came down to it, where you were essentially playing "second fiddle" to their first choice(s)? To me that is insulting, slapping me in the face would be better than that, but thats just my opinion....so i wanna know, would it matter to you guys about being a second fiddle,just so long as you were getting some sex and attention, or would you rather go without than play that part?

lostmydrinkagain 43F
2272 posts
8/6/2006 12:55 am

I'd rather go without.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 10:55 am:
i would too


8/6/2006 1:11 am

Hi Dear, who could possibly be "first fiddle" ahead of you? I imagine we have all been used at least once in life. Ladies with your looks and personality probably have to deal with it more than most, just for the sheer numbers of men you come into contact with. I had a really hard time getting over my ex years ago, but made it clear to the women I dated that I was still basically in bad mental shape. Noone fell in love with me, but I still made some great friends that I still have. Knowing you and your guy, can't imagine where this is even coming from.

Bronzehalo 2007

HeelsCoopsCrena 43M
6 posts
8/6/2006 1:53 am

Someone lied to you. You can never be a second fiddle.And if this is the case,you shouldn't be insulted. Just drop em,they don't deserve your attention.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 10:56 am:
thank you hun

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/6/2006 11:26 am

on the brighter side, at least you were a choice but, I hear what you are saying!

Purry {=}


Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 11:59 am:
yeah, i guess that is one way to look at it, but still, it sucks knowing you barely made last place lol

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/6/2006 1:33 pm

That is the story of my life. I hate being Plan B. And, usually, in my case, Plan A doesn't go away. Unless I leave the party, than Plan A disappears, and she's left without Plan B (me). And she doesn't have Plan C lined up, either.

Sometimes, I don't know why I bother going to parties. I'd just go without. Though I would like to be the focal point of someone's lust.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 6:56 pm:
i like how you put it that way


8/6/2006 2:08 pm

2nd Fiddle ???? You would never be second fiddle with me - my primary focus would always be on satisfying you .... as the following indicates:

My job had me going to a conference in Myrtle Beach, which is about a 1,000 mile drive from Kansas City. I started early, and it became a nice, sunny day, and traffic towards the Carolina city was moving smoothly, as I was travelling 80 miles per hour in my new BMW, and as the miles passed I knew I would be arriving for the conference leader's get-together sooner than anticipated, and when I neared my destination I decided to pull into a suburban Starbucks and use their web-access to send an e-mail to you, who I had chatted with on the AdultFriendFinder site. Although you did not return my e-mail, I knew your name and that you lived in the Mytrle Beach area, so I looked you up in a phone book and proceeded to drive to the place where you live.

I knocked on your door, but there was no answer, although I could hear a noise inside. I touched the door and it was unlocked and unlatched so it opened a bit. I said ‘hello’, but still, no one answered, although I could hear what sounded like voices. I invited myself in, and proceeded to follow the sound, which I discovered was coming from a bedroom.

The bedroom door was open, so I looked into the room.

My eyes opened widely to see that there were two beautiful, naked women on a bed, one of them was you, and I guessed that the other was the girlfriend you had told me that you had met on the AdultFriendFinder site. The two of you were kissing and fondling each other’s breasts, moaning passionately. (Your tits looked even better than the pictures I had seen!!!)

Your blonde friend went down and started performing oral sex on you, licking your wet pussy and focusing on your clit. You continued moaning and your head swayed in orgasmic ecstasy. Suddenly, your eyes met mine, and you recognized me from my AdultFriendFinder picture, and you smiled and motioned me to come over to you. My hardening, aroused cock led me over to you, and you leaned forward and unzipped my jeans, taking out my firm, erect dick, and you began to slowly, deeply suck on it while your friend continued to enjoy your sweet pussy. Your tongue ran up and down my cock, while your hand massaged my balls, then your tongue went round and round the head of my dick, then it fastly flicked the head, before your mouth took my cock in your mouth and your head bobbed up and down on it, and your wet mouth was an incredible feeling.

The you said “Fuck me, fuck me now!” and you went on all-fours on the bed, and said “Fuck me doggy-style, and pound me hard!” I slowly entered you, and began with slow, short strokes to tease you, then I proceeded to pound your tight, moist pussy like it had never been pounded before, while I sucked on one of your friend’s firm nipples and fingered her pussy. I was giving two horny girls massive, multiple orgasms at the same time!

Still not enough, you moaned “It’s my turn to fuck you!” and you pushed me down on the bed and mounted my rock-hard dick that was wanting to be in your warm pussy. You rode me cowgirl style, while my hands held your large, perfect breasts. The friend that you met on the AdultFriendFinder site came over and sat on my face and I tasted her warm pussy, as she leaned forward and French kissed you and held your nipples between her thumbs and fingers. My dick hardened and swelled further, and I could fill my semen about to explode from my body. My hips thrust up and down at your pussy that was bouncing up and down on me, and my tongue licked the other’s clit. As you girls were experiencing your greatest orgasms ever, my dick released a furious, volcanic stream of cum that poured out of your tight pussy. Both girls collapsed and you fell on your backs, resting against each other, with smiles of joy on your faces, and you held each other closely, satisfied.

Knowing that I needed to leave for the conference event, I zipped up my jeans and bent over the bed and kissed you, telling you that I would return after the conference was over, and asked your friend to take care of you while I was away. You fell asleep in each other’s arms as I left for my conference, although I looked forward to my return to join you and your AdultFriendFinder girlfriend for another round of hot, passionate sex ….

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 6:56 pm:
another wonderful scenario my dear

rm_hiboyyyyy 48M
31 posts
8/6/2006 7:24 pm

second fiddle is hard, it all depends how you feel about the person and if you know you are 2nd going in. if they are honest with you and you put up with it then its on your head. If they lie to you and tell you your number one but you find out different, fuck them!!!!
If you are ever second fiddle, not to be rude but i really need to see the girl that is first. i don't think to many girls are beating you out as top fiddle, and if they do i am sure it is just a personal taste thing. there are not man girls as beautiful as you.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 8:17 pm:
thank you for the vote of confidence, i appreciate honest and beautiful people like yourselves and the rest of blog land that has taken time to read and reply to me.

SingleWarrior 52M

8/6/2006 8:22 pm

Depends on circumstances.

If it's a really nice girl and she's got things a bit mixed up in her head, and falls back on me, then fine. She'll find (hopefully) what she was looking for in the first place.

If she's a player, I *might* not be interersted in the first place. *BUT* if I was in need of a one nighter, who knows

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/6/2006 10:46 pm:
good point.


8/7/2006 7:28 am

It wouldn't bother me. We both got what we wanted.

Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy,


Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/7/2006 3:29 pm:
damn, wish i could adopt an attitude like that!

wantinfunwithu 45M
82 posts
8/19/2006 11:19 am

Personally, I'd rather be playing second fiddle in the band than lead guitar in the subway station. I might be second fiddle, but at least I'd be in the band, and second fiddle can become first fiddle, remember. Gotta have hope.

Naturally, I'd rather be first fiddle, by a lot.

No banjos, please.

Greekgirl4u06 replies on 8/20/2006 8:22 am:
pretty cute reply, thanks

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