Wouldn't it be nice to have kinky friends  

Greathands54 63M
15 posts
3/19/2006 1:44 pm
Wouldn't it be nice to have kinky friends


So you wouldn't have to edit your conversations, and could be as open as you want?

I've always been kinky - at least as an adult - but 99.9% of my friends have no idea whatsoever...

I tend to be rather outspoken and have strong opinions on lots of things, but kinky sex is something we just don't discuss.

I've opened up to a few of my work friends, and of course my former lover and her entourage, but the folks I spend my "vanilla" time with have no idea.

Because I work in an artistic milieu, I'm alwaysaround art directors, or photographers, camera operators, writers and so on...they're usually very open about their erotic leanings, and very often they're gay, so sexuality in all its forms is an open book.

Other people look at me like I'm from another planet - really - the thought of tying someone up, or playing out an erotic fantasy is so far out of their comfort zone, or even their reality, that they quickly change the subject, or become uncomfortable.

I even had someone I often work with, and have confided in, tell me awhile ago that I have a rep of being into "chicks" etc etc. because I talk openly about sexuality and erotica...

Gee, how could they miss the point so widely?

I correspond with some people who are in committed alternative relationships, and I envy them a lot, because they're free to pursue these strong feelings together. I'm not yet as free as I wish to be. Who knows?

This has been a very interesting Journey so far, somewhat of a rollercoaster ride really... I imagine, somewhere along the way, I'll recapture the full extent of sexual openess that I had in my past life (not so long ago) and crave so much in my present one...

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