Rejection  

GotUsaynOooh 36F
105 posts
1/30/2006 4:42 pm

Last Read:
10/18/2006 7:10 pm

Rejection

I've posted this in the magazine, but it's happening again so, I'll post it again....

If I wink or write someone and they say "no thanks"
or "not interested" I go on with my life and that's
it! Why is it that rejection brings out the worst in people? Everyone has the title of dealing with what they will and wont allow in their lives. Why act immature about it, when you knew in the first place the person wouldn't be interested in you prior your initial email? You can't change a person's mind once they have it soundly made up. Not even if you view yourself as "God's Gift". I think most on here need to realize it.


The next time I get an email with bad rejection..I will definately post it on my board!
Be warned!


1undercoverdick 51M

2/1/2006 9:28 am

get em baby...keep it wet


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/1/2006 11:07 am

I will Undercover. Thanks for checkin in.
{=}


dis_studz_4u 35F
9 posts
2/1/2006 4:39 pm

Dayum GotU

Every time I see you post a pic... I don't think It can't get no betta...but every single time you prove me wrong! Makez me wonda what'z next?!

You have to be one of the sexiest women on here (besidez my babi), so don't let theze trifflin fellaz sweat you for one minute! You know you sexi and you don't have a problem with gettin fellaz or ladiez for that matta so don't let that s--- get to you!

Got Dayum U Fine!


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/2/2006 3:46 pm

It's always a pleasure Dis. Let's Keep in Touch.
,
GotU


IWANT2DYMES 51M

2/3/2006 5:19 am

women take rejection 4 more worst than men...especially if they wanna give u sum pussy and u aint interested 4 what ever reason...to women...thats insult to thier womanhood...then thet get desperate and be like...we can just hook up every now and then...but if i aint feeling u...i aint feeling u...but if a guy holla...wink whatever...all we looking 4 sumtimes is sum acknowledgement


MRWANTSDSTYLE 40M
44 posts
2/3/2006 4:20 pm

noone likes being rejected so the fact of the matter is some people just don't know how to deal with it. whenever i write a letter to a member i close it with this simple line " if you are not interestedA polite NO THANK YOU would be appreciated." and that's it for me but guess how often the no thank you is polite or even comes back?

if you said something in the area of 2 out 500 you would be too high.

some people are just plain rude and there is nothign to be done about it other than letting it roll off your back like an adult.


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/3/2006 6:45 pm

I agree with you to a certain extent Iwant2dymes.Some women are like that, but not all. If you aren't interested or feeling her just be honest with her. It will insult her first hand,but she will get over it. If I were in her shoes I would have wanted the truth from jump. That way I wouldn't try to push something that doesn't exist. Honesty is always the best policy


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/5/2006 11:16 am

I agree MRWANTSDSTYLE. I do that along with venting on this board,but always stay adult in everything. Since I posted this blog all of a sudden, noone wants to send "bad Rejection mail". hummmm... not a one!

Take Care Sexy,
GotU


rm_XXGirthy 54M

2/6/2006 7:56 pm

Whazz Up, Gotu!! Just decided 2 check on ya!! C U on the message boards!!

BTW, nice job of putting 2 and 2 together!

Xgirthy


MRWANTSDSTYLE 40M
44 posts
2/6/2006 7:58 pm

noone wants to be exposed as the asshole they really are in the face of rejection, if you can't act like an adult and take the rejection like an adult then maybe you shouldn't be on this site is how i see it.

that and the negative exposure generated by their bad behaviour would most likely decrease the chances of anyone wanting to talk to them because we would all know what the person is really like.

my gem of the day is that anger brings out your true nature stress someon out if you want to know what kind of person they really are inside lol


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/7/2006 7:09 am

Welcome Back X, dayum I've missed ya! Next time don't leave without saying bye!


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/7/2006 7:30 am

Btw, I knew it.


sexZT69

2/10/2006 9:54 pm

Ok I can understand if a guy sends you a wink that is fine and dandy but what if you specifically say in your profile that you are not looking for a man at the time and they insist on emailing you anyway. Sometimes strong rejection is all that some people understand. I personally know what I am looking for on this site and if that changes then I will let you know but until then why waste my time and yours by emailing me when I say from jump NO MEN!


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/13/2006 6:43 am

Sex~> Thanks for your comment. If someone sends me email and in my profile it specifically states they aren't what I'm looking for, my initial response would be the auto response that states why I'm not looking for them. If that same person sent me another email, I would just block them. If by chance they sent another email that was what I call hate mail I would respond accordingly, and you would see it posted here. If they are sending repeat winks and I don't want the attention I just ignore it.


rm_TJA63 35M
1 post
2/27/2006 1:17 am

i will never do that to you


GotUsaynOooh 36F

2/27/2006 1:20 pm

Welcome to my blog TJA63.


lovetolickclit25 38M

3/1/2006 7:22 pm

dont see how you get rejected with a body like that


Fuckforlongtime2 52M

3/1/2006 9:38 pm

Go Get them Girl!!!! I Can't understand the rejection you so D--- HOTTTTT!!!!!!!


GotUsaynOooh 36F

3/9/2006 4:24 am

lovetolickclit25 and fuckforlongtime2 it's me doing the rejecting.


Thickdickstl74 35M
6 posts
3/14/2006 6:59 am

As a man when you want something and you can't have it it hurts. Alot of men don't want to admit that and would just prefer to throw fit like a punk ass baby. I have alot of friends who regaurdless of how the women tells them no feel they have to go off call the women all kinds of bitches and hoes. Truthfully I don't get it, if you thought she was sexy at first how did she become a ugly ass bitch just because she's not interested. That's just how some men are, but don't get it twisted that's not all men. So GotUsaynOooh brush them haters off and stay sexy and sweet. Peace

P.S I alomst forgot keep em' sayin ooooohhhh, cause after lookin at that pic that's all I can say.


GotUsaynOooh 36F

3/14/2006 4:12 pm

aww thanks Thick. welcome to my blog


Thickdickstl74 35M
6 posts
3/15/2006 8:30 am

Nice Topic. I'll have to check back from time to time to see if you drop any other interesting blogs. Keep em' cummin.


mycakandeatit2 51M

3/24/2006 6:47 am

whats up girl...where u been?????


GotUsaynOooh 36F

3/27/2006 6:22 pm

I've been in Flawda My. Glad to see you again.


GotUsaynOooh 36F

4/22/2006 9:14 am

Let's call this one LP962. I thought older men (46) were supposed to be more mature...lmao sheesh!

***Original Email***
i am new to this site ,i don't know who got you all negitive but i have nothing but respect for my black women can we talk

------ Profile Attached -------

i would rather meet you to talk about myself but brief discripton go like this i.m five seven inches light complerxtion black man

***Email 2***
My response to this guy was, I'm not tolooking to meet you for sex, but we can still chat if he wants. I also attached a copy of my profile (he supposedly read it).

His reply...

sex is part of life ,but i do females in my life that are just freinds .lets talk about that. would you like to call me

***Email 3***
stop playing games get off this site no time for people full of shit

My response
Auto response: Sorry,I'm too busy to respond to you personally.

What I think about this guy & his email...

1. He's overly immature to be 46 years old.
2. This older man is controlling (not all)and demanding. I hate to say it, but this is one way to prove it.
3. He's also a liar. Hence the statement(s) "I have nothing but respect for my black women".

On a scale of 1-5. Five being the worst on my scale this person is a two.


bigblk2011 70M  
84 posts
6/6/2006 7:33 pm

to me it just hay it what they is missing i don`t lose anything when i get a rejection

Bigblk bjp


GotUsaynOooh 36F

6/7/2006 1:16 am

wish everyone was like u


jawoflife 57M

6/7/2006 8:16 am

hi dear,
that's real small of the guys to act ugly because they feel rejected,they have a bad understanding about the game,i feel i can pull(get a date with) 1 woman out of 10 women that i meet.if one says no that means it's 9 left,2 says no that means there's 8 left and so on....soon i'll get her.the more no's you're closer to that YES....
peace&love, wilson


GotUsaynOooh 36F

6/7/2006 12:43 pm

great way of looking @ things jaw


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