Why are you here? Poll Question  

Got42DDD 49F
168 posts
8/7/2006 12:15 pm

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Why are you here? Poll Question

I have wanted to ask the men and women of Passion/AdultFriendFinder why they joined this type of site?

Please select which answer is closest to your reason.
Heard about it from a friend and was just curious about it
Thought it was an easy way to hook up (sexually)
I love showing off on cam
I love watching other people's cams
Figured it was an easy place to find people with similiar kinks/fetishes
I love looking at other people's nude pics/cams to pleasure myself
I don't have much luck with the bar/club scene, so said what the heck
My life is too busy to have a relationship, just want sex
I am married/attached and want some on the side
I am open to meeting someone steady, but have my doubts that it is possible on here

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

HonyInHowell69 70M
11 posts
2/19/2011 7:49 am

What Type of Gal am I searching for?......Only YOU,LTR Only
As Specified before she should have a Fun Sense of Humor, be very good looking with a dynamite sexy body and open to ANY & ALL types of SEXUAL activities and Adventures and VERY responsive to try new adventures.....like enjoying a Nice Warm Bubble Bath together and/or washing each other in a NICE HOT SHOWER.
To travel to many places, Clubs to go Dancing and maybe even visit a nudist beach with me....Like Gunnison Beach on Sandy Hook, Then trying one of the GREAT Restaurants on the Hook like the Seagull’s Nest and then to that wonderful Motel on the On Sandy Hook for a nice, really great and wonderful first time with SEXTOGETHER..WOW!!
Hopefully to be followed up with a lasting long term Relationship at her place and mine.
Treat me right and I'll make Breakfast.!!!
Random Question: Do you liked to be Kissed and licked ALL over your Body?*
* If The Answer is YES……..Include Your Phone Number!
Want a HUMM JOB? Suckingly Yours;HORNYINHowell

OpiumMangeFoals 53M
1 post
1/30/2009 8:34 am

i agree with what you are saying and i hate the bar seen for dating.i just wish i could meet some one that can be happy with one person for a relationship.i'm open to a lot of things and am very sexual but i'm looking for one person i can share this with.if you talk about your needs with the one person your in a relationship with and you both agree you need something else then why not share that with your partner.don't run around and be sneaky.i believe that honesty is most important thing in a relationship.i have been lied to and cheated on and it hurts,so i know what it feels like,and it sucks.so why would i want to make someone else feel that way.if it's not working out then tell them don't put it off till you wind up hurting that person.thats all i want to add. i really found it refreshing to hear a woman tell it like it is!!!!!!!!!

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
9/25/2008 9:02 am

HudsonValleyMale - I totally understand you. You have to weed out the "too good to be true" ads. You know the ones with the model type pics who claim that they just want to suck your d*ck.

OH and the reason why a lot of chat pages go unanswered or declined is because as soon as a female logs on, she gets like 20 IMs immediately. You can't talk to one person without getting constantly paged by other people. Or we get the "I want to f*ck you" pages and usually decline all pages regardless of who sends them. I have experienced that BIG time. I very rarely log into IMC for that reason.

Hope I answered a few questions for you. Just a word of advice, post some sort of picture on your profile. Women are very visual as well. AND people don't search those the profiles that do not have pics. OK that is my 2 cents. Lots of luck on here babe.

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

HudsonValleyMale 65M

9/19/2008 7:56 am

I would love to meet a woman with the same interest/kinks/fetish as me. As you said in your profile, you can't post that on the Match site. Do I think it will happen on this site? Most likely not. From my experience on here, every woman I have chatted with, talked to, etc that is interested is always to far. The ones that are close to me even though their profile says we are a good match, are never interested in meeting, let alone talking or chatting. Every night I see women less than 50 miles from me, some less than 20 that are on the IMC, and I try to make contact with them and they decline the IM or don't even bother to answer it. I will send an email and 9 out of 10 times not even get a quick reply let alone a regular reply. I know men outnumber women on here 5 to 1, but ladies, if your on here looking and someone contacts you, it would be nice to at least get a reply back of some sort. At least let us know you are real and not a spam bot just trying to hook us into joining the site. I am real and I am looking for a lady for friendship, fun times and an LTR. Ok, enough of my rant. Take care.

Ionlyshow 47F
17419 posts
4/4/2007 12:34 am

I'm a full-time carer for my disabled husband, I don't get out much (ever), turns out I like to show off on cam, my husband doesn't mind,(and as long as it's ok with him) he gets to watch,I have fun and virtually meet like minded people who like to get their kit off too..
Sure beats joining a knitting forum..
and I love the fact that nobody judges me badly because I like doing it..x

rm_crgruready 40M
564 posts
2/24/2007 6:42 pm


Well ain't that a long winded story I won't even begin to tell!


You don't have an option available so I will not vote.

rm_olosnah1 73M

2/14/2007 10:35 pm

Me i'm looking for a great woman period.

If i find here Great is not i will somday.

I look at it this way there has to be others tired of boring dates with people with little or no passion for life or Sex.

There is so much to explore and every woman says they want passion but few acually open up. I'm a nice guy looking for passion, not a woman that will hide from her feelings. Are there any ladies out there that from time to time will thow me on the bed and tell me what she wants.

Us men are Simple lol we want to protect the ones we love and Love the woman we care about. We are that simple, well i am.

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
1/21/2007 11:11 pm

I totally understand Pouchie - I am still looking myself. When my subscription runs out, I am done with this site. I know I have said that before, but I am not finding anyone - so why pay for it anymore?

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

rm_pouchie1955 61M
2 posts
1/21/2007 8:59 pm

I think most people in general would like to have a partner but finding the right one is the trick,you can go on a lot of dates and maybe get in bed with some of your dates but if things don't get serious then at times as a human you become frustrated and sometimes want to give up,so in my opinion I believe this is why people get on this site thinking that they might find that special partner that they have been searching for,as for my self I'm still looking!!


Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
1/19/2007 1:40 pm

Update on the results: Still the same top two

I am married/attached and want some on the side 34

I am open to meeting someone steady 32

Total Votes 136

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

rm_fun34562006 56M
1 post
11/19/2006 2:33 pm

looking to have fun fun fun

GlideRapesIdler 41M

11/16/2006 8:04 pm

Something to pass the time. If I meet someone, then I meet someone. Until then.........

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
11/6/2006 4:58 pm

Whatchadoing69 It seems that most guys are like you on this site - They want the benefits of a relationship (sex often) without the stress or committment.

That is ok for those who want that, but I am not sure that there are too many women who want that, and you would need a partner.

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

Whatchadoing69 45M
1 post
11/5/2006 4:49 pm

I joined really based on a combination of my life is too busy (Yeah I know I can make time, but I like it this way) and thought it would be an easier way of meeting people who are just as horny as me.

I am not against going out to dinner, movies, weekend getaways or whatever. I just am not looking for a serious relationship. Doesn't mean that I don't want a consistent partner (Sex gets better the more you get to know your partner's likes and dislikes).

ED072958 58M

11/5/2006 7:07 am

I joined this site with the hopes that I would be able to meet someone on here who shares similar sexual interests and we could pursue our fantasies together. What I have found is that like most sites I have visited or joined for short periods of time is that there are alot of horny guys, gays and married couples. It kind of a disappointment and I am hoping the situation will impove.

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
11/2/2006 2:42 pm

Here are the two top answers again:

I am married/attached and want some on the side 24
I am open to meeting someone steady,
but have my doubts that it is possible on here 22

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

rm_HorusLuv69 43M

10/29/2006 12:31 pm

I work a lot Hell my job is my mistress and it's killing my social life

rm_John113992 46M

10/23/2006 8:07 am

I like the community. Its great to know that there are people like me out there thinking the same thing. Here for a little action. Though there is lots more to the story. Isn't there allways.lol

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
9/21/2006 6:59 pm

gutamaito: I am so glad that you joined this site because you liked my melons, maybe Passion should be paying me... LOL

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

rm_tig122 42M

9/21/2006 3:24 pm

mostly to find people with similar fetishes, also as Got42DDD said, most other sites offer nice people who aren't fun in bed.just maybe on here there might be a fun in bed /nice person!

rm_gutamaito 64M
1 post
9/17/2006 5:08 pm

I like looking at your nice melons

Got42DDD 49F
160 posts
9/7/2006 9:26 am

Looks like the front runner is:

"Married/Attached looking for something on the side" (13)

but the close second with (11) is.... "open to meeting someone steady, but have my doubts that it is possible on here"

Funny how these are the two top answers so far.

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

biggovernment 57M/54F
1 post
9/5/2006 12:56 am

Recently single. The internet is a whole new experience. Trying to find out what the dating world is like. This site is obviously a little wilder. That being said, I would like to get to know and have companionship with whoever I meet on any site, sexual proclivity notwithstanding.

rm_geoff180x2 41M
1 post
8/7/2006 12:53 pm

Found it while checking date sites, a friends wife told me to check out to find a "nice girl" to settle down with. But with luck I found the land of "Nuts and HONNEYs". And I love naughty women!

RocketMan_Len 52M
2325 posts
8/7/2006 12:31 pm

Ummm... "None of the Above"...?

I didn't hear about it from a friend, I just landed here one day. Looked interesting, so I stayed. Along the way, I've met some interesting people, so I won't be leaving anytime soon.

lostmydrinkagain 43F
2272 posts
8/7/2006 12:28 pm

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