GagesUpperLoose 45F
115 posts
3/5/2006 12:27 pm

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I would like to know why people that are looking for friends here, don't all put pictures in there Profiles. I find i very hard to speak with anyone without a picture. what are your thoughts?

Greygoose1939 77M

3/5/2006 1:54 pm

everyone does not have your shape and may not feel as confident sendiing a picture over the net

xxxhandyman4u2 55M

3/5/2006 2:05 pm

I think that they secretly do not wish to succeed...Or they are butt ugly and afraid to show their pic...

fantasylover_05 62M

3/10/2006 8:58 am

Hey Good!

Looking at a picture in my mind can be both good and bad.... stay with me here LOL... yes am as visually stimualted as anyone... but it is also true that you may "overlook" someone based on a bad pic or they may not be "your typical type visually"... and if you don't have a pic.. you may actually get to know them BEFORE you make that "judgement"?? Make any sense??

Believe it or not... I have met a couple of amazing ladies who did not post a pic.......

rm_3isbetathan2 39M

3/24/2006 3:14 am

I must admit when I check out who is online, I always filter it so that it only shows the ones with pics. If people can't even be bothered to put a pic on their profile then they probably have something to hide or don't come on often enough to bother with.

The people who take more time on their profiles are the ones who are genuinely looking to meet others for lots of pleasure.

blue_1959 57M
71 posts
3/27/2006 8:14 pm

It took me forever to get photo's up because I simply didn't own a digital. Once I did, I had a number of problems getting the proper hook-up's, down loads, etc... And I'm an exhibitionist. Still, I have problems with the face, etc... for work reasons. Those and any "other" pictures I just post in my network area.


4/17/2006 4:32 am

I think that if you are that afraid of losing your "career", maybe you should stay off this site. I mean if you are afraid that someone will see you and ruin your career (I can't imagine that really happening), then why would you even temp fate by coming here in the first place?

EcoidChantArgot 48M
2 posts
4/27/2006 6:40 pm

I don't think it's a big deal if someone has a picture, or not. I didn't have one for years, but when I sent messages I always included one.

I do think that you should send a photo if sending a message. However, for some people it is hard to open up until they get to know a little bit about the person they are sending a message too. I guess it all depends on the person, and who am I to say?

Two_Tarts_NM 56M/54F
196 posts
5/2/2006 12:01 pm

We can understand not putting face pic's up. We try to make our pic's erotic but always blur or cover our faces as an act of discretion. Mostly because of our careers. Believe it or not we have run into a couple of people we knew professionally.

There is also the number of responses, especially from those that can't seem to comprehend the written word! No doubt Good, you recieve a multitude from those who do not fit what you are looking for! What a pain to sort through.

We have no problem providing face pics to anyone with mutual interest and use our network for that. After all mutual attraction is a BIG part of this. We try not to be put off by profiles without pics but generally find that those without are as already mentioned butt ugly or not really serious about the lifestyle.

Two_Tarts_NM 56M/54F
196 posts
5/8/2006 7:11 am

Good, you are most welcome for the pics and thankyou for the compliments. We have both enjoyed all of your pics, too bad we are so far away. We would love to meet you sometime and see what happens! Maybe we can plan a roadtrip soon...

mustacherides4fr 56M
22 posts
5/11/2006 5:10 pm

I have pics on my profile and those who don't call me shallow but I don't read them. It does not matter if you live next door to me if no pic no read sorry. Its simple if I find you attractive then I want to know more about you. On the other hand if I am not sexually attracted to a lady then I am not interested in getting to know her Im sure I have missed out on a lot of fine sex because of this but hey cant help it. Now if Im approached by a lady who does not fit my attractive scale then depending on what she says may or may not make me want to know her better but for me to make the first move I have to find her somehow attractive in looks or I will go no further.

lostbuttfound 48F

6/20/2006 1:55 pm

I have no pics. Various reasons: I'm new, but might be serious - I don't know yet; and, I have a career in the public sector in a very small town. I am not butt ugly but pretty easy on the eyes. Isn't caution necessary?

SomethingHot65 106M/106F
12 posts
7/21/2006 8:20 am

Hello to you all, We just wanted to say that if someone that is above you at work in here an want to bring it up or use it against you at your job I would just plainly ask them what they was doing in here and Print there Profile out even if they dont have a picture and say well this is them. We believe as some of the others here an that is dont waste our time we look at only profiles with Pictures of Faces first then with out Faces and never look at profiles without at least some kind of Photo in it. If the rest of you are so worried about your life outside of this life them maybe you should all move on an stop wasting our time. The biggest pet peave we have is someone or couple that would ask for a picture then talk a couple of times then oyu never here from them again, that how come we put are face shots on here, we know that there are a lot of Perv's on here that just want a new picture so they can go over to there little cornor an jerk off an we just dont have time for Jerk Offs !!!

barbiencavey 50M/50F

10/13/2006 3:11 am


rm_duckie690 50F
2 posts
10/16/2006 8:24 pm

How many people are on this site for fuck fun!?? I have not posted a pic because I have a boyfriend, looking for a few things he won't do, and live in a town where I/we know 7 guys who are on this site. One works for him. Unless you are wanting something more than fucking, why does a pic matter? I hooked up with an amazing guy in the same situation as me (he has a girlfriend) never sent pics, and were able to meet in a public place and figure out who was who right away! I love the mystery in not knowing. I do have in my profile what I am specifically looking for, and respond to those who do not quite fit what I need.

21 posts
10/21/2006 5:55 am

I want very much to get pics in here. I just don't know how to get it done! I don't have a digital camera, and my scanner doesn't seem to want to work. Tech support, here I come!

63Redhead 53M

3/25/2009 1:47 pm

hey should send me an email so we can chat more.

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