Thanks to the kindness of a stranger................Part 2  

Goldenhairgodess 63F
471 posts
7/21/2005 6:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Thanks to the kindness of a stranger................Part 2


I got a message from the helpful stanger who
wanted to know if I was physically attracted to
him.: I said that over time people develop
feelings positive or negative and that it was up
to you if you wanted to invest the time.
He replied:
well.. I was just checking for chemistry...
I replied:
But I cannot choose to whom I fall for-it just
happenes.So I never say what the future may
He said:
ok...thanks for your candor
I replied:
I think it is up to you what to do. Maybe think
it over. bye.
He said:
You've told me enough

So while he did not take advantage of me that
night...he was trying to get me to say I was
physically attracted, then he could take
advantage of that, using it for leverage to get
what he wanted.
In other words, manipulate me using my gratitude.
Instead I offered him an oppurtunity to spend the
needed time to develop what ever was posible for
me to feel towards him, as a friend, with the
posibility of more.
Now he will never know what might have been.
And I did not give myself for the wrong reason.

rm_simmo19692 47M
20 posts
7/21/2005 8:05 am

i find it funny that the man in question couldnt wait abit.
does he not know that patience is a virtue? by the look of your pic it was his loss.maybe he will learn next time??

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