No Drama!  

Goldenhairgodess 63F
471 posts
9/21/2005 12:41 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

No Drama!

I have read that on many profiles, I often wonder what exactly does that person considers to be drama? I try to figure it out by reading the profile over again. I can sometimes sort of think I know what they mean. But most of the time I
can’t. Please, someone, tell me what “No Drama!” means by your definitions.


Priapeo 46M

9/23/2005 10:29 am

"No drama" for me means stating from the start the boundaries of a sexual relationship and committing to not trespassing the threshold of someone's private life. It means also that when one of the two feels that the relationship doesn't satisfy him/her any longer, he/she can retract without being haunted or threatened by the counterpart. Each one must have the power to press the "end" button whenever they want to.

But I fear that for many out there it means that they can behave like a turd and expect that their lovers swallows all that with a smile on their face.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience


Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
9/25/2005 8:37 am

WOW! Did you ever nail that one! Having been told I am too negative with my comments, I am trying to be more positive in my statements. But your last statement "they can behave like a turd and expect that their lovers swallows all that with a smile on their face." Is what causes me to go negative in the first place. All I can say is "Right On!"


Priapeo 46M

9/26/2005 6:17 am

well, I just wanted to say that when a sex-affair is broken a lover deserves at least an explanation, and the "no-strings" clause is no excuse for being rude or abusive. We may be cheaters, liars or whatever, but we are things with feelings nonetheless.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience


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