|Blogs > Goldenhairgodess > Goldenhairgodess Speaks!|
LEAVING WELL ENOUGH ALONE-LETTING GO
LEAVING WELL ENOUGH ALONE-LETTING GO
Some people cannot let go without finding a way to discredit the other person. Sort of a sour grapes mind set I guess. So it has been with my helpful stranger who went out of his way to prove to himself that I am just a shallow person and a liar. Back at that other site I had a new person of interest. He also had no photo. Here is what occurred:
He: Looks are looks....*shrug* evidently they are important to you
Me: You think so? And they are not important to you?
WAS SUSPICIOUS AT THIS POINT, SO I TESTED TO SEE IF IT WAS WHO I SUSPECTED IT WAS.
Me: The last guy who refused to give me a photo said he looked like the boy next door.
And when I saw him I did not want to be in that neighborhood. LOL
He: Why? What did he look like?
Me: And you cannot tell me that you are above all that
Me: Not my type and he knew it and that is why he did not have a photo
He: So how was he not your type?
Me: but if you just want to argue then lets move on to another subject
He: Well...I'm curious how the last one was not your type.. so I could see where I would
Me: When it comes to appearances-beauty is in the eye of the beholder so my description
will do no good and may do harm.
He: ok...what did you two end up doing?
Me: Nothing like dating-he tutored me in math for a test
THE LACK OF RESPONSE HAD ME WONDERING IF MY HUNCH WAS WRONG. STILL, WHY ALL THE INTEREST BY THIS GUY?
Me: And I bought him dinner for reward
Me: that’s it
Me: Ok I guess you have decided not to talk?
Me: ok catch you another time. bye
THE VERY NEXT DAY MY SUSPICION WERE CONFIRMED
He: I just wanted to wish you the best in your studies. I was hoping for some honesty from you - if you felt that I was so unattractive that you wouldn't even want me in your neighborhood, I would have preferred to hear that...
Me: I figured it was some sort of set up-so I did it to flush you out-CALLED
Me : If you were in AdultFriendFinder to read my blog you would have known what was real and what
He : Don't have an account on AdultFriendFinder
Me: I know I wrote about the kindness of a stranger about you but you rejected my offer
Me: wanted more than that
Me: so if you really want to check up on me send someone there to see
He: no.. it's ok...
He: I figured you weren't interested... and now I know the reason
Me: the writings are dated you went this far so go ahead
Me: It was not you that I had in mind when I said that but all the guys in general who
refuse to provide a photo
Me: and ask me to take their word
He: Well.. I wasn't at my best.. but your taste obviously doesn't include me... and that's
He: I hope you receive what you deserve, _____...
He: Take care..and bye
Me: Had you been willing to be my friend first-but no that was not good enough
Me: you need help _______ cause you have some unresolved issues
He: *laugh* What issues would that be?
Me: Insecurity and such fear of rejection that you set yourself up for rejection
He: perhaps you're right
He: Well...now that you've informed me accordingly.. have a good life
COPIED WHAT I HAD WROTE IN THE BLOG AND INSTANT MESSAGED IT
Me: Jul 19, 2005 2:48 pm Mood: ecstatic, 175 views Thanks to the kindness of a stranger, I got the help I needed to pass the math test. This after a long term "friend" failed to show up three times in a row. I had asked for help for 2 weeks. Then this stranger from a different site came to my rescue. First by phone, explaining how to solve the problems. Then as moral support in person, as I took the test. He asked nothing in return! So I treated him to a Mc Donald's Meal. He was not drop dead gorgeous physically. But a beautiful person on the inside. No I am not in either love or lust. But friendship could lead to more in the future. It is up to him. Thanks to the kindness of a stranger, I got the help I needed to pass the math test.
He: well..thank you.. and I leave now to work on my issues... once again.. good bye
BECAUSE HE WAS STILL IN DENIAL I EMAILED A COPY OF “I SPOKE TOO SOON” HOPEFULLY HIS GAMES WILL END HAVING BEEN CAUGHT