Do You Know What You Are Looking For?  

Goldenhairgodess 63F
471 posts
7/13/2005 3:16 am

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Do You Know What You Are Looking For?

I for one am looking for a relationship. And at the same time
I have desires too. But in order to have a relationship,
I as a woman, cannot give in to those desires. To do so is to
be viewed as a slut, or at the very least, with great suspection.
At the same time, doing that I may be labled as possibly fridged.
So it is damned if I do or damned if I don't. I have to explain
to every single guy why I am here and what am I looking for.
So I say, I will know once I find it.

redmustang91 57M  
8662 posts
7/13/2005 11:25 am

Well I suggest a different strategy. forget the old idea of slut. Look at every magazine in the grocery store with sex tips to drive men wild. Turning all women into closet sluts is a full time industry in America.
I suggest baseball sex. Read my blog to understand. As for a ltr, that is merely a short term relationship that was so good the parties decided to keep doing it. If you never start with a short term fling it can never bcome a longer term fling or a LTR! guys are not usually worried about the long term until they have experienced the current affair. Unless you want to adopt the old idea of an arranged marriage!

Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
7/13/2005 5:18 pm

Gee, is that what that 17 years was with my last spouse? Just a very
long short term relationship? If you only knew. I will not make any
guesses about other peoples relationships. Or claim to know what is
best for others. I only speak in terms of what I feel and think.(Do
sex tips really drive you wild? How interesting.) Well good luck with
that. Thanks for your input.

Apolybear 54M

7/15/2005 12:04 pm

I read your profile and I don’t see what all the confusion is about. You want an intimate relationship with a man. Seems pretty clear cut to me.

I have a different issue. Because I’m married, many women think I’m cheating on my wife. It never occurs to them that I might have an open marriage and we’re non-monogamous.

The double standard women face is truly unfair…

rm_CATMEX2 60M
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8/22/2005 10:47 am


Goldenhairgodess 63F
396 posts
8/27/2005 9:36 am


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