Are 50/50 Relationships possible?  

Goldenhairgodess 63F
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6/2/2006 11:03 am

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6/2/2006 12:40 pm

Are 50/50 Relationships possible?

This is my view of it. What is your view?

No one is "all nice" or "all bad" we are all guilty of somethings and innocent of others. The bottom line is that we must be as complete of a person as we can be and set boundaries as to what we will or will not do to continue any relationship. If we lay expectations on another person, we will be let down sooner or later. There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship. As time goes on and needs are changing we need to, at times deal with a 30/70 or even a 10/90. The successes are those who can hang in there till it evens out-and being honest with your partner about your needs but not deny their needs as a punishment or to demand them to comply. At least that is how I see it. My happiness is my responsibility and no one else's. Does that make sense?

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