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A brief introduction
A brief introduction
For starters, obviously my name is Gina. I've been happily married for almost 9 years to a wonderful man. We have a 7 year old son, who is wonderful at times lol.
My husband and I have been talking about our sex life, lately, and how, with the pressures of work and family, it's been heading in the wrong direction. We've discussed possible solutions, and have decided on two courses of action. One is that I will look for a female partner (or two, or three, who knows). We also decided that he could (not ntecessarily would) be a part of that if all agreed. The other solution was that he could have a "fuck friend", a woman I've known since college.
So, my search begins.
I joined AdultFriendFinder at the suggestion of my husband. Even though my profile says WOMEN ONLY, my first response was from a man, who is evidently illiterate. I sent him a brief, but polite reply. I don't think the politeness is going to last though. I have very little patience with fools.
I'm going to explore the site further now. I'll post again soon, because I'm sure everyone who reads this will be breathless with anticipation (LO
11/9/2005 7:49 am
From the look of your pic and the sound of your posting, it appears hubby might be unwise searching elsewhere for his pleasure; he has everything he needs right in front of him.
Hope you both find what you're looking for, but feel you might be disappointed in the long run.
11/9/2005 9:10 am
It is an unfortunate side effect of the internet community that for a media that is predominately based on text that a great many of its users barely take the time to read.|
The emails from males are most likely not going to stop any time soon. A great many males often attempt to disuade or coherce women in spite of their protests that they are not seeking the companionship of men at any given time.
Strangely enough a great majority of men have a severe limitation in being able to read profiles before they scroll to the email section to compose an unwanted advance and attach a penis shot. So much for higher brain functions, I guess.
I hope that you have good luck with your search and are able to find what you seek. Further, my hopes are that the difficulties you're having can be resolved to the satisfaction of both you and your husband.
(And don't worry about the paitience thing. If a guy can't take the time to read; he probably can't take the time to be offended by being told flat out that there's no interest. )