Some misconceptions we encounter  

GhostwolfSpyGirl 47M/47F
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6/9/2006 1:02 pm

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6/10/2006 11:32 am

Some misconceptions we encounter

Here are some of the common misconceptions we encounter in the “Hot Wife” lifestyle when we are looking for another.

1-She is horny all the time and only thinks of sex 24/7.Right! We have no life other than this, we do not have careers, family, friends, hobbies, dreams goals or ambitions, and our entire life is centered on sex. Sarcasm aside we are like everyone else. Everyone has a personal life and personal pursuits, this happens to be ONE of ours.

2-The wife is not satisfied sexually by her husband, small penis, bad lover ect.
While some play the “cuckold” thing most Hot Wives are very satisfied by their husbands. HW hubbies are some of the most secure men you will ever meet. Being open minded, able to communicate, and in tune with his wife make HW hubbies sought out. Some just see life as a smorgasbord and not the same old menu everyday. This gives the couple an extra helping of dessert.

3-You can’t love your spouse if you do this.Well so we are supposed to deny both of us pleasure to conform to what ANOTHER finds acceptable? Control is not a show of love it is a show of narrow mindedness. We do this together. It may be an unusual hobby, but if you can talk about sex with other people, you can talk about anything! We really get a kick out of single guys who say “I could never let my wife do this.” But do want to hook up with us. Give me a break!

4- The wife will fall head over heels for me because I am (better, bigger, manly, ect)
You are supposed to be a good lover, get real. You add some variety to her experience, but we are together for the long term. We are in love and that is not going to change no matter how you rock her world. So stop being delusional, and just enjoy the experience. The naughtiness of having another’s guy’s wife is part of the sexiness, not a weakness. If you do not understand this, don’t swing, do some personal growth exercises.

5-The Husband is latently homosexual
Watching a man and a woman having sex is gay? I thought contact with members of one’s own sex is homo? It is watching your beloved sexy wife being sexy as hell. It is watching a live sex show with your favorite star. It is memories you build together to strengthen your bond. When the guest man leaves there is man and woman sex. Sounds very gay to me!

6- This is just sickAgain ones own opinion. Why are we getting replies from someone on an adult web site who finds this “sick.” We are hurting no one, have discussed it, and find it betters our relationship. IF it is sick to you, why are you even reading these ads? Self-denial on your own part, or just someone seeking attention?

7-Too many dangerous and crazy people out there.
Yes one must be careful all the time. Even if you are just going to the store for milk, even if you are walking home with youngsters, even if you are just minding your own business, there are “people?” who have nothing better to do than to hurt others. We should not let a few bad people ruin everything for everyone. We are very careful, and we someone acts “fishy” in anyway we just move on. If someone does not answer honestly and quickly a “deal breaker” question, we move on. Any little power play games or other bull crap starts, we move on. We do not have to do anything we do not want to do. This is really no more dangerous than any other active hobby.

There are some of our ways we approach the lifestyle. I hope you day and relationship is going as well as you always hoped for.

digdug41 49M

6/9/2006 3:17 pm

Interesting post I feel like this you cant say a fuckin word to me if your ass is here to unless I am posting some real sick perverted shit like fuckin fantasizing about childeren thats a no no other than that I say do what the fuck you want but dont talk shit about me but hey its like thatin the real world so why would it be different here have a good one. Oh and BTW really Nice ASS

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GhostwolfSpyGirl 47M/47F

6/10/2006 11:32 am


Yes I see your point, people like to be hyprocrits and point the finger. Maybe it is to make themselves feel better about their lives? Maybe some are jelous because some of us have paid the price for a healthy relationship.

We are not here to judge, but to make friends and enjoy. We will not get along with everyone, but will not ruin it for others.

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