Why sneak around?  

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9/20/2005 11:50 pm

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Why sneak around?

Why do people sneak around to look for sexual encounters if they already have someone? Why not just break it off and be single to do whatever the hell you want and not have to answer to anybody,come and go as you please,and not have to hide? Is it really worth it if you get caught
and how bad could it possibly be at home for you to go through all that? This is America and we're not obligated or threatened to remain with a person if you're no longer in love or lost all interest in that person,right? So why create all that drama? I just don't get it!

Choozmi 50M

9/21/2005 12:25 am

I agree with you.

I think for some people cheating on their lovers gives them a sense of superiority, like "I have TWO people who want me and you only have ME wanting you!"

But sneaking around and cheating aren't my style, so I don't really know what I'm talking about.

HughJarse2000 47M

9/24/2005 4:59 am

I think Choozmi is out of touch on this one.

Men are cowards.

They wouldn't drop one girl until the next one comes along. Most of them are just upgrading as they go ( by their own individually acquire criteria ) it's probably a biological imprint of some sort. Keep mating until you find a superior mate , then cheat on new mate instead.

Of course folk like Choozmi ( we have met several times before in discussion groups ) claim to be less primal , and biologically driven. In fact if memory serves me right , he has yet to even spread his seed . Which would be good evidence of a low biological drive.

Most men think with their dicks as nature intended.

( No offence meant Choozmi - you just make a good example of the other way of thinking that very few men subscribe to in my experience )

Welcome to the Blog. Most folk seem to stay once they end up here !!

HungNfl 51M

9/25/2005 2:44 am

I believe people don't end one relationship to pursue another because they're insecure about finding another (in very rare cases there are those, usually more women who find the possibility of being discovered exciting). When my relationships reach a point where the bad out-weighs the good then I do end the relationship by honestly communicating my feelings although being as gentle and non-offensive as possible.

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