The feelings of lost and regret  

GRGuy1981 35M
14 posts
2/3/2006 4:15 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The feelings of lost and regret

Its has almost been two weeks now since my girlfriend left me. I truly was in love with her so much I guess that I was blinded by my own feelings for her. I feel lost without her love in my life. Though I know that I will live on. But this really was my first relationship where I didn't break it off. I guess that its a lesson I had to learn. Life without her will go on and I will be able to go when I can take those first few steps to recovery. I dont want to feel like the past year an a half meant nothing. But when is it time to stop feeling bad and try to go on an get back out there and start dating again.
I am confused, some people have been telling me that I should just get out there and strat looking and healing. Others have said that I should take my time and wait a couple of months at least before I get back out there dating again. I think that this is one of the reasons why I am on the network. To find someone to go out with and talk and help me through situations like this.

horny4770 60M
8158 posts
2/4/2006 8:23 am

I'm really sorry for your current emptiness. As to when you can move forward depends totally on how deep your feelings were for this girl. Everyone is unique in this area. I lost my wife over three years ago and had way to many comforters pushing me to move forward. It took me a long time. Pain and loss are a part of life and we all deal with it in OUR own time in OUR own way. When you are ready, you will know. It does help to talk to people that will listen and hold back on giving advise that can twist your mind.

Good Luck.

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