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7/30/2006 7:33 am

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While having sex do you prefer the lights on ??? Or off? I like them on!

ZZ_Todd 59M

7/30/2006 10:03 am

Definitely ON... art can't be appreciated and enjoyed in the dark!

rm_DrBuzz2 46M
112 posts
7/30/2006 10:08 am

Hi Yumster!! Definitely lights on for me so that you can look into lover's eyes and watch each other's facial expressions...

PS Great pic

multitasksextoy 58M  
3511 posts
7/30/2006 11:57 am

You have to have the lights on,have to be able to look at your partner in the eyes unless your in the wrong position for it. It helps to know whether the other person is enjoying what your doing,sounds can be deceiving,but eyes never lie!!

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Panthiest 72M

7/30/2006 12:26 pm

On off offer differences to be enjoyed. Now fer instance, if it's day time I generally prefer the lights off. Call me a miser, but I say, why waste electricity when the sun is shining. Hell, if you need it any lighter, go out on the back lawn , spread a balnket, open the wine and have at it. Invite the neighbors over once in a while and make it a regular event, like bridge or something.

Now at night it's a differnt story. I dot' like the lights on becasue it makes me feel like I'm going to be reading a book. But a few candles at plasticity to the scene (that means dimnsion to your features) that actually move around with the flickering light which flickers as you move around. Sometimes I like to shut the door, maybe.....lock it, curtain the windows, til it's pitch black and let my fantasies run amock. Sort of like being blindfolded. Also the less some senses are used the more the others are. Tested and true. SO if your sight isn't being utilzed nor much sound, then your sense of touch becomes that much more sensitized. So pitch black you can abrely see my shadow, no sound but that of your heart beating in anticipation of what Im going to do with or to you. Waiting...heart beating faster ...a finger trails lightly across your cheek, alng your neck, over the tip of your breast and nipple and is gone ... to be felt again gliding over your .....

Hydragenias 56F

7/30/2006 3:13 pm

Most definitely ON, but I must add, not a harsh bright light, just a soft light is nice. I don't like total darkness, I like to be able to SEE who I'm with and I dont see well in the dark.

and DITTO with 1Hardazz on the video comment, LOL

HammyNoxalDiary 62M
5984 posts
7/30/2006 8:07 pm

As long as my lover and I are turned on, it doesn't matter if the lights are turned on or not.

michiganmike196 45M

7/31/2006 3:52 pm

Mmmmmmmm, great question. Lights on are great especially in those moments when its so hot your clthes literally melt off your bodies by magic - and we've all had those times where you don't remember them even coming off - just the exhaustion afterwards. Ever have one where the next day its like a shoe here a article of clothing there etc......
But, its amazing though in the darkest of nights when laying in bed when you know shes awake and you are and a touch here and there turns this periphel lighting on in your mind and you just know where to touch by instinct and don't need any lighting at all because you can feel the heat and instinctively know where her lips are and all the other body parts - ok I'm turned on now...........

rm_marnisway 85F
5018 posts
7/31/2006 9:50 pm


at my age you wanna know ....who's there...


Nothing is ever the same... when it comes to pleasures.

with a hint....the erotic senses will manifest into an abounding mess of flesh

the mind needs fulfillment of the body

if it feels good is good

I've done it again...*S*


8/1/2006 6:53 am

ZZ_Todd .... Yes its great to look up and watch his face!


8/1/2006 6:57 am

DrBuzz2 ..... MMMMMM yes theres nothing hotter!! And thank you!

rm_Orella 46F

8/1/2006 8:28 am

On!!! For Sure.. Love to see facial expressions.. part of the joy of sex!! And with you yummmm Definately ON!!!!! >>!

nathan4462 54M

8/4/2006 8:29 pm

Lights off with candles lit, or by can see well enough but still have to feel your way around a little.

rm_elite682006 48M

8/11/2006 3:17 am

No lights in the barn. Besides, I don't think it matters to the goat.

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