Safe/Unsafe Sex!  

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
932 posts
10/30/2005 11:12 pm

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Safe/Unsafe Sex!

I have spent a lot of time lately here on our friendly site, checking out profiles,reading and repling to mails from others interested in our profiles, and chatting on IM and Messenger to lots of couples and some solo men and groups.

I am appalled and dishearted at some of the comments that I have received concerning Safe Sex, and the need for protection.

It would appear that many couples , lots of them young, quite a few single girls , and countless (supposedly) solo men have a total disregard , not only for their own health and safety , but for that of others too!.

Aparently there is a new "fashion" for going "Bareback" i.e, no condoms or protection at all.

So many men have suddenly developed a "Rubber Alergy", many couples feel that it "spoils the moment" and "inhibits Spontainuity", and one very attractive young lady informed me that her boyfriend likes to see her "filled with the juicies of many men " after the sex act , and using anything would "spoil his pleasure!"

Half the under-developed worlds suffers from Aids/HIV, and all the old STD's have not been banished from the world either.

Has the world gone mad, or are we all on a suicidal spiral, leading to our own distruction.

In the many years that I have lived upon this earth , I have witnessed the death of several friends from HIV, known a few woman that are unable to have children, and that have suffered great phyical pain because of NSU, i.e. minor STD's that later developed into serious infections.Added to that a few good male friends, that have suffered serious discomfort in their sexlives, also from STD's contracted when they were much younger.

"We always ask for an actual test" said one man aged 50. How "actual" is an actual test ? A week , or a month?. he then proceded to tell me about an "event" that he took part in the previous week (without his wife) whereby several men , complete strangers to him, had unprotected sex with a young woman that had adverised her services on a contact site!. But never mind , they all have a good time and really enjoyed themselves !

We are GB_cple and we firmly believe in SAFE CONSENUAL SEX.
Have Fun But Play Safe

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3042 posts
11/8/2005 11:14 pm

[post 134946]

Here an interesting and Informative post from shyvixen1962

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
11/7/2005 4:49 am

I keep reading about these "allergies to latex." Polyurethane! These condoms are available in any drug store, and are indeed much more sensitive that the avg. latex condom.

Also, women... go out and get a box of femdoms, or female condoms. Go home, read the directions, then practice insertion until you have it down. You get to call the shots and protect yourself if the guy refuses a condom himself you just whip one out (but why you're fucking a guy who's that inconsiderate, I don't know); your partner shouldn't complain either... I've found them to be more pleasurable (from my perspective) than any standard condom.

Wanna read more about this subject? I've blogged a bit about condoms... go to Condoms!, Condoms! Part 2, and Unsafe Sex... (your input appreciated here). Feel free to comment on that last one, still scratching my head over it.

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3042 posts
11/6/2005 12:32 am

Don't you trust me?

Trust isn't the point, people can have infections without realising it.

It does not feel as good with a condom.

I'll feel more relaxed, If I am more relaxed, I can make it feel better for you.

I don't stay hard when I put on a condom.

I'll help you put it on, that will help you keep it hard.

I am afraid to ask him to use a condom, He'll think I don't trust him.

If you can't ask him, you probably don't trust him.

I can't feel a thing when I wear a condom.

Maybe that way you'll last even longer and that will make up for it.

I don't stay hard when I put on a condom.

I'll help you put it on, that will help you keep it.

I don't have a condom with me.

I do!

It's up to's his decision.

It's your health. It should be your decision too!

I'm on the pill, you don't need a condom.

I'd like to use it anyway. It will help to protect us from infections we may not realise we have.

It just isn't as sensitive and I can't feel a thing.
Maybe that way you will last even longer and that will make up for it.

Putting it on interrupts everything.
Not if I help put it on.

I guess you don't really love me.

I do, but I am not risking my future to prove it.

I will pull out in time.

Women can get pregnant and get STDs from pre-ejaculate.

But I love you.

Then you'll help us to protect ourselves.

Just this once.

Once is all it takes

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3042 posts
11/5/2005 2:53 am

Thx for your comments Fox,
"aint nuffin so stupid as folks!"

Fox4aKnight1 43F

11/4/2005 1:13 am

Hi ShyVixen just directed me to this blog and I have to agree ......right now I am talking to a good friend(he has herpes) and he is telling me about his gf that he had unprotected sex with due to allergy to latex......she instisted ..........I just want to smack him. I know it was her choise and they are both old enuff to be my parents but still. JEEZUS!!!!! Damn I am pissed off and what not. I mean what is it. I mean I really don't get it. I guess they want to have " fun" and what not.....but hell a lifetime of pain and or delibeting effects and or an eventual slide into death. That is so not recomended> I mean hell I got educated and I know to use a condom .......hell even oral sex is risky as hell. I am just so tired of ppl not paying attention. it never happens to them ...alwways to someone else I suppose .*sigh* wish they would pay attention.

later y'all.......hugs
*sad smile*

GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3042 posts
10/31/2005 1:09 pm

I agree with you greatnsexy, but these all were people I was actually having conversations with.

Thanks for the other coments to shyviven and funfun, + ts

specially to shyviven , that has actually suffered, (I hope not to much)and her comments prove my point,

oh and the smiley wink has gone ! lol

greatnsexy69 47M

10/31/2005 4:19 am

Some people will say anything to get a reply. Of those profiles where I have seen similar things, I doubted they were for real,i.e. other things about said profile made me think they were there collecting email addresses or hookers. What you may think is a couple is actually a gay single man looking for other men. I know of one profile, where the person said they 'liked internal cumshots'. My first thought was that she was fake, and most likely not a woman but some sort of automated thing collecting email.

funfun19801000 36F

10/31/2005 1:28 am

Hi there.

I totally agree with you - would never have "bareback" sex with a new man I just met. I am not looking for a relationship at the moment, so I do have a lot of one-night stands.... but not without protection!!! Why risk your life for a good time!?!?!?


rm_Tshorny 44M

10/31/2005 1:15 am

It truely is good to hear the voice of good sense.. I think its all too easy to get carried away in the hormone charged build up... and we all need to take a step back now and again.

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