My hubby and I are thinking about swinging...  

Funcpl2playwit 43M/40F
5 posts
5/24/2006 3:27 pm

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My hubby and I are thinking about swinging...

My hubby and I have been married for about 4 years.We have a wonderful life and everything could not be going better! We are not looking to divorce or anything,I suggested we try to swing and see what happens.I just crave a little change of pace and I think he does as well.He is more nervous about it than I am,his worries are about developing feelings for the other person.To me tho,that is not an issue.I can't imagine it being anything more than some sex once in a while between friends.I really don't think you have to have alot of warm feelings for someone to have sex with them,just some attraction.To me,there's a BIG difference between sex and love.....Any advice?

rm_bonny671 45M/F

5/24/2006 4:43 pm

yeah ya right its just sex i bet hel fink that as well when he sees spunk all over your face. mmhhh your thinking arent you ,you dirty liddle minx ,if he dunt like it then fuck him off coz lifes too short init and your gona need as much cock as you can tek as you are a dirtbag

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
5/24/2006 4:52 pm

I have lots of advice!

First and foremost, TALK TO ONE ANOTHER.
Do not do things that you both are not comfortable with
After your first experience talk about what you liked and what you didnt like
Remember it is just sex, but be respectful of others b/c we all have feelings. BE HONEST with your partners. If you are not interested for whatever reason, tell the other persons you are not interested
GO SLOW!!!!!
TALK TALK TALK about everything
Do not give people your personal information!!!!!
and most of all have fun!

Purry {=}


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
5/24/2006 4:54 pm

oops edit, that was meet people in a public place! And while I am at it, talk to people first, have some drinks or dinner to see if there is a connection.

Purry {=}


rishabha 38M/36F

5/24/2006 5:05 pm

nice comment purry ... and yes i also think sex and deep feelings are not necessarily interdependent!

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