Honest talk beats munting  

FunSeekers1967 49M/49F
4 posts
3/20/2005 6:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Honest talk beats munting

We have been enjoying " The Scene " on and off for over 4 years now and although we're not serial swingers one thing has always puzzled us, that is people's reluctance to get past the " Munting stage " and talk like honest adults about their sex life, I mean how many times do you have to talk about " cocks and cunts " before you actually say how you feel and what your after. We believe everybody should bring their shopping list of their needs, wants or desires and take it from there but in practice we've found a lot of people will talk more freely about sucking your dick than talking about what drives them. We're not trying to get into people's heads ( want to get into their knickers ) nor are we wanting to invade thier privacy but at the same time we always find that if someone can openly talk about sex then any meet we have with them is much more relaxed and less stressfull. Maybe it's just us that feel that way and maybe most people prefer not to talk about themselves and all they want to do is Munt and fuck, which is their right after all it's about having fun.

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/20/2005 8:17 am

Munt is a new word for me. I can sort of tell what it means from the context, but a definition would be welcome.

Since you are not "serial swingers" maybe you haven't spent anough time with anyone for them to feel comfortable about opening up. It seems to me that there are different levels of trust, and it's alway safer to stick with what is expected then take the chance of expressing your own desires and maybe being rejected.

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