Women should thank the women that came before us  

Frnds4Play 52M/62F
2686 posts
1/21/2006 8:45 pm

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Women should thank the women that came before us

I commented on a post yesterday done by unlistedone. His comment back to me read in part as"men are taught by previous lovers", something to that affect.

We should be thanking the women that came before us for teaching our men how to make love. And we should continue to teach our men, because each woman is different and likes different ways of being loved. Loved not fucked is the word.

For the men that don't have someone like that in their lives don't think that watching a porn movie is going to teach you anything. Ask each and every partner what she likes and you will learn to become a fantastic lover.

Having said that, it also works in reverse. Women need to ask also, to find out what their man likes. How he likes to be kissed, touched, and made love too. Thats how we become better lovers.

Off subject..For whatever reason as of yet I have not figured out how to link, or change colors, or anything that is in the little box to the left as I type this blog. I have tried many times, and tried again tonight and it didn't work.

Take care everyone


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/21/2006 10:00 pm

Well said! It's ALL in the way you communicate. That is the key to sexual satisfaction.

My mother is the one who started me off. She pulled me aside for a talk and the gist of it was "Keith, if you learn to please your partner in bed, you will always be happy sexually." I think I was 17 at the time.

PS: I have found this to be sound advice. Along with the other things she told me that day. Great Post!

Blog On!

rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
1/23/2006 7:06 pm

all good points, kat. but can i add one thing? besides just asking questions about what your partner likes, tell them what you like as well. i've heard so many women talk about previous lovers who couldn't "get the job done". i would ask them point blank, "did you tell him what to do?" and the answer was always the same.... "No, he should know what to do."

how's he/she supposed to know what you like unless you tell them?


rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
1/26/2006 9:45 am

You got it all on the right track, Kat. Stan is very lucky!

Now, changing things here...
Okay Don't put in the quotation marks I'm using. You don't need to do that. They are just a guide for you.
use this key first... "[" without the quotation mark.
then add "color blue" then finish with "]"

that should look like this, except I won't put the last "]" on it, so it won't change color on me. Okay?


Then write whatever you want to write and then end it with this.
[/color" (again the quotation mark marks the spot of the last "]"

and if you do it right, it'll look like this!

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
1/30/2006 12:03 am

Words that are so wise and so true. Communication and empathy are so important. warm xx

ez2nite69 56F
4 posts
2/13/2006 8:24 pm

We all get taught daily by everything and everyone, surrounding us. Even your notes teach... I like reading them..thanks.

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