Thinking of What If's  

Frnds4Play 53M/63F
2686 posts
10/27/2005 8:47 pm

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Thinking of What If's

mzhunyhole has a blog on about finding true love and if it is possible again.

Which got me to thinking what if's.

How much of our life is by chance or predestine. What if I had not gone to that bar/restaurant with my mother on that particular night and not met the man I would marry. Would I be better off, or worse off.

What if I had stayed with my first love. Would I have never grown up as I am now.

What if I had not come to Kingman to live, but instead gone somewhere else. Would I have met someone else that I had so much in common with.

What if I had never placed a comment on my profile stating that I was looking for a friend with maybe benefits and that I prefer men as friends. Would I have gone my whole life not knowing what fantastic sex is and learning to trust someone again.

Why do people come into your life and stay put and others just pass through.

I met two of my very best lady friends through jobs I had at the time. Did I meet them because we needed each other at that particular time in our lives. They were my opposites, but we had so much in common. They are both dead now and each of them I knew for such a short time. Was I there to help them with there passing from this earth? Was I there to bring them peace and comfort and laughter. I miss them more than I can say, but I know they are watching over me.

And the list can go on and on. Does any body else ever wonder about What If's?

Take care everyone


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
10/29/2005 6:10 pm

I avoid what if's. It's like looking back over your shoulder and rarely do such thoughts help with the present. I prefer what nexts.

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