The older we get...........  

FriendsNMore22 53F
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11/5/2005 9:18 am

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The older we get...........

It's funny how our bodies change the older we get. I used to be fine with having my legs bent over my shoulders when I was in my 20's !!!!! But I find I'm not as flexible anymore.

Although there are good points with aging. Multiple Orgasms. Who knew they existed? LOL When I was in my 20's they didn't. My thought about sex back then was, yeah, I guess we can have sex. Whatever you want to do is ok with me.

And I believe women tend to get selfish the older we get. We know what we want, we know what feels good and our goal is to have as many orgasms as we can. My thought is, I'm going to have it the way I want it before I lose it !!!!! LOL There's always that thought in the back of my mind that one day it might be gone.

I often wonder how men feel. Men were horny dogs in their teens and twenties LOL Not to say they aren't horny now. But I think the body changes when they hit their 40's.

I would like some comments. What changes in a man's body as they get older. Am I wrong to say that although many men can't cum as often the older they get, they tend to enjoy it more mentally? That when you were younger it was all about getting the piece of ass, getting to the point of release. And now it's enjoying the whole experience mentally, for as long as you can before the release?

AltumHunksUnite 53M

11/5/2005 11:23 am

When it comes to learning an appreciation for the finer things related to sex, I think it works that way with men too, but we gradually begin to deteriorate once we reach our late 40s. It's a cruel joke of nature, since that's about the time women that age begin to peak.

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Tone_33756 55M

11/5/2005 3:34 pm

I know the older I get, the MUCH more attentive I am to the womans needs and desires.

Not that I was a selfish SOB or anything in my younger days - but I was simply a little (no, a lot) clueless!!

The biggest change: I simpy can't cum half the time I have sex - no matter how long I have it. It does not bother me at all (well, a little) but it might bother the woman.

And I know for sure I enjoy sex much, much more now - because each partner I have might ultimately be my last - so I enjoy and appreciate every single second of sex as possible.

rm_nathanadler1 57M

11/16/2005 5:05 am

What changes in a man during his forties? Perceptions. It seems that now that I'm in my mid forties, a subtle transition is occurring. A shift into a more mature stability. Physically, besides the grey,and the slight bulge around the middle? How about doing something physically that was done all the time in your 20's and 30's and then the sudden realization hits that you're not 20 anymore because now it hurts a bit to do those same things. Sexually, I would have to say I personally seem to enjoy the whole experience now, the "wham bam thank you maam" type of thing isn't appealing to me anymore. I've always known that sex is really the ultimate synbiotic relationship. Now it I just don't have to get mine as well.

a_poetman 45M

11/20/2005 12:00 am

I have found that the more pleasure I give to her, the more intense my pleasure gets. With age comes wisdom...too bad we can't have it all. Wisdom and longevity.

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