Why aim low?  

FrequentFly06 50M
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4/15/2006 8:34 pm

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4/21/2006 1:59 pm

Why aim low?

I have been asked why my fantasies and encounters tend to the exotic. To which I answer: Why not? Isn't that what fantasies are for?

One thing that I don't understand is why people "fantasize" about normal things.

I meet women all the time who tell me that their fantasy is to have slow sex in candle-light... or maybe sex on a beach in moonlight (although, having had sex on the beach, I can tell you that it's not all it's cracked up to be. The SAND gets EVERYWHERE!)

When I hear things like that, though, I think: "Really?" This is what your FANTASY life consists of?

It's EASY to have sex by candlelight. Sex on the beach is only a plane ride (or for some a car ride) away. That isn't fantasy. That's NORMAL.

In my view, you shouldn't fantasize about such things -- you should just do it. Couples all across America have sex by candlelight. Big, Little, old, young... this takes almost no effort, and absolutely no imagination. Anyone can do it.

If that's what you really want, why be on a “sex site?”. Why not try Match.com? Or even eHarmony. Fill out your profile and find someone else who thinks that sex with the lights on is a fantasy...

As for me, I’ll dream bigger, and aim higher...

Passion, to me, is not “normal.”

It is a fire that threatens to consume you.

It is a breakneck race down a mountainside, with no guarantee of the end.

It’s painting with broad strokes of red paint… not a drawing of timid charcoal pencil lines.

Slow sex in candlelight? Oh, I guess its OK when you need a rest...

HotTXpussy4U 48F

4/21/2006 12:39 pm

Well I am not one to assume that everyone has a normal life, and therefore, normal sex. I agree with you - sex by candlelight seems a bit "blah" (and I can't recall ever having it that way). I have to have a little adventure, maybe the possibility of getting caught - - hmmm, must be why I like public places. {=}

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