Men suck?  

GonadMadamFilth 44M
121 posts
4/22/2005 6:29 pm

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Men suck?

Are men really that bad?

I've been doing a lot of commenting lately, especially with this latest Bella_ crisis, and I'm coming across some really angry women out there. I sometimes feel like, when I read their post, that I am some kind of lying, malicious deviant. Is it really that bad out there? I don't remember making anybody feel that way so who is doing all the damage?

I'm thinking it's good that I let my paid membership lapse because I was starting to get the idea that any e-mail that I sent out was merely fodder for the crusade against men or the subject of some upcoming post.

**I must clarify that, although I did not send out many e-mails, every one that was sent was unique, individualized and only sent to someone that really piqued my interest after going through a 32 point checklist and a thorough 3rd party evaluation.**

Just an observation.


expatbrit49 62M

4/22/2005 6:47 pm

Well without raising the wroth of the sometime angry women, I agree that I would not be sending any e-mails out, while some of those guys definatly deserve the basting others do not seem that bad.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


Barbiebunny69 43F

4/22/2005 7:56 pm

I think women got upset with Bella was that they compared themselves to the picture she posted which is a marvel at beauty. How can any woman compare if the men are fawning over her? They also didnt think the false advertising wasnt too cool either. I had my suspicions as a PT model, its hard to have those kind of pro photos at your beck n call. But who knows i thought maybe she was a model. Not all guys suck..not all women are out to cut your nuts off. Just be you
XO B


PailsDiverHonks 55F

4/22/2005 7:57 pm

Freestyle,
Don’t think that way. For every WTF email I get I get about 30 decent emails. I started my blog because of an email I received from someone. It was his first email to me and all he did in that email was put me down. When I tried to reply to him he had blocked me. So I started my blog and posted it. I make it a point to post at least one WTF email a week on my blog. At first that is all I was posting then I started exploring other blogs and started posting some of my thoughts about this site and a few of my no so good experiences I have had. I have said this before I’m not comfortable writing about my sexual fantasies or adventures the way some on here do. Those are things I am more comfortable sharing with the person I get intimate with and not the whole world.

To answer your question “Is it really that bad out there? It’s not REALLY bad but it’s not all roses either. If I could post the names of the men that send me my off the wall email I would but I wouldn’t feel good about myself. If you want to privately have me send some of the mail to you….I could do that too


GonadMadamFilth 44M
153 posts
4/22/2005 7:57 pm

SensualKatey: You can stroke my keyboard anytime! Mmm...


cochise226922 46M

4/22/2005 8:08 pm

Oh no don't get me started on this topic...uh oh too late. It would seem, from the blogs I have read and the reactions I have gotten personally that some or most men really are 'that bad'. I have opinions on this and I am not worried about the 'wrath' of women on this site from anything I might say hereafter, ahem...

There is a glaring double standard going on here in AdultFriendFinder land and it is disturbing to me personally. Women want magical, insprirational e-mails sent to them but seemingly repond to a very low percentage of them, based on experience as well as stated fact. After a man is rejected so many times most will begin to resort to 'fishing', or sending form letters or quick blurbs en masse hoping to catch a nibble. I myself have tried this - with the same poor results as heartfelt and original e-mails I might add. This is an unfortunate but natural progression and should be expected by the women here on this site. I would stress not necessarily accepted, but should be expected nonetheless as an 'evil' inherent to this site. Instead it is frowned upon and criticized strongly. Men are ridiculed and e-mails ignored as a result. I have a post in my blog regarding this subject as well.

While I'm running my mouth and creating ill-will I will also say that I have found women (NOT ALL women, please) to be just as insensitive and sometimes as predatory as the men are said to be. I have been chewed up and spit out several times by women looking for a quickie, wanting to sample the 'big gun'. Invited over, used and shown the door. LOL!!! Shocking really as I thought this was the man's job to be cruel and sex driven.

I have also found that when I find someone I do click with and I want to see again, or sometimes even before we meet face to face, if I say something wrong (like share my thoughts that arent always rosy or express my -current- unhappiness with life) the women are gone so fast I usually never even hear the goodbye. I am a relationship guy and have come to realize I'm not gonna find 'her' here. The women on this site are driving me to seek out nothing but sex. Driving me to send out nothing but form letters so as to jump on all nibblers and satisfy my needs ruthlessly and with reckless abandon.
I WILL NOT do this however as I have class, morals and a desire for something more.

And so the cycle continues...I will now duck and cover.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
4/22/2005 9:53 pm

The whole Bella deal, is certainly a shake up to reality. Hopefully, people will realize that there are a few sick folks out there...but, that doens't make EVERYONE sick. In my first week online, I met three interesting guys -- one was very handsome, but very indecisive; the second was way too serious for me; the third one has been quite the charmer and I am about to go on my 3rd date with him tomorrow. I am very interested in seeing where this one will lead to. Whether it is for a short or long term relationship, as a result, I would have to resoundingly agree that ALL MEN DON'T SUCK... just a few sicko men do. ....


GonadMadamFilth 44M
153 posts
4/23/2005 3:52 pm

Greeneyes: Sure, I could take a gander at them. I could use a good read. You gotta e-mail 'em to my AdultFriendFinder though cuz I have that darned "standard member" disease that allows me to do nothing but blog!


EMSqueen 40F

4/24/2005 10:05 pm

Men aren't that bad...it's just that a few bad ones give the rest of you a bad name sometimes. ; ) Even as furious as SOME of you make me, I'm definitely not ready to write off the rest of you. ; )


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