Biggest Turn Off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

FreakayPair 42M/37F
4 posts
11/16/2005 12:23 am

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4/3/2006 5:45 am

Biggest Turn Off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


We all understand that there is a need for mutual attraction between people! We have met people on here that are so conceited its sickining!! After chatting or emailing with them 1 time we look at them like uugggghhhhhh. Their pics look good but there personalities detracts from that all the way. We are not just stuck on how you look but how you are as people!! If we chat or meet we will be honest and let you know if we are compatible, if not we will politely let you know we are not, no need to be rude. We are far from being conceited. We are very real cpl, down to earth and modest.

p.s. lol almost forgot....To all the pushy people. We have kids, so if we cant hook up at the drop of a dime its nothing against you but we place our kids 1ST, each other 2ND and then the lifestyle. We do actually meet so give us more than a 5 minutes notice....lol

small12handle 43F
18 posts
11/16/2005 12:58 am

I fully understand what you are going through. We are also in the same battle. It seems to me that if you have a single person or couple that has no children they do not understand the priority. The last problem we had called at 4:00 in the morning during the week. Definatly had to put a end to it. I always like to plan ahead at least a week ahead to get everything set. I know how you feel. Hope you have better luck next time.


rm_baldlovin 35M

11/16/2005 4:23 am

Well hello. I see this is a new blog. (hope it will become a nice one)
I do have to say, that I as well like to plan ahead. I sometimes wonder how people can be so anxious to get in touch and all (for like within 20 minutes). Seems like they don't think things trough.

But a happy thought here... they mostly aren't the people your searching for and you can remove them quickly out of your list of "people to meet".


BigB00TYChick 42F
2 posts
11/16/2005 11:15 am

I feel the same freakay. The beauti on the inside is waht helps to make the beauty on the outside more sensual. I can't stand when a nice looking lady has a stinl attutude. Total turn off. It just make me want to show her ho inadequate she really is. Dudes are not excused from the rule either. I will put a ni@@a out fro the count just to show him he ain't all that, and waon't answer his calls after I know I turned hin out....HAHAHA. Keep your character in check because IT does count!

The kids thing....If people are that anxious to have sex that they don't want to accomodate you drop'em like a hot potatoe. I am not looking for commitment but understanding is always a reason for some extra added pleasure when we do meet=)


ShoresToExplore 52M

12/7/2005 8:51 pm

There are a lot of factors that must always be considered when starting a new relationship, whether it's a friendship, more serious or just a sexual tryst. When children are involved, the factors compound and make for a more complicated scenario. If a man (or woman) becomes difficult or rude, that right there is a fine excuse to drop the relationship. I've come to encounter that too with a couple of women and I did not hesitate to back down and look elsewhere.


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