When People Lie About their Single Status and in reality they are Married??Shame Shame Shame on you!  

Foxxxybrown1028 43F
80 posts
8/28/2005 11:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

When People Lie About their Single Status and in reality they are Married??Shame Shame Shame on you!


How can one wake up the next morning with the person that they are married to get online and states that they are single and seeking sex? The reason why i am bringing this is up is becuase I have had another situation where the wife contacted me on my cell phone and tells me that this individual is married. Me pissed off? of course because once again I have wasted my precious time trying to know someone and I am blindsided by their charm. How can one live with theirselves???

Why do people do this ?? Why do someone get on these types of adult sites states on their profile that they are single... then find out later that they are married??

Well this one particular person luckly I havent went to the next step as far as meeting him and exchanging pics. Ok If you are married and you are not happy at home talk to your mate. Yes I have heard so many reasons why per the married individuals that they cant leave home. Some of the reasons is the following:
1. Kids
2. Cant Afford to leave...Hello this is not California where the wife gets 1/2, get a 2nd job.
3. The wife is not putting out sexually.. talk to her and find out her needs and wants communication is the key.
4. Why stay in a marriage where there is so much bitterness inside and the love is not there anymore? Come clean sit down talk to your mate.. Counseling anything to salvage the relationship.

Sadly for me it didnt work out.. However there is always a little spark of romance to make things get back into fireworks stage.

Finally to the men and ladies on AdultFriendFinder that states that they are single. And on paper and by the state of ________ says that you are married. Come clean with the people on AdultFriendFinder. Who has time to play games I dont... Do you ?? I mean comon people this is suppose to be a site where people are actually honest with each other. Ok I know in the real world LOL. It can happen.. let me wake up from that dream... Dont hide behind selections on your profile and really want to be single person either you are or you arent. Impersonations are only for actors unless you are a really a good one. And lately,, I have met some really great actors that deserve an Emmy Awards.. Thanks Married Men!! I really appreciate you guys for wasting my time!!! Are there any real single men?? I mean single single... If you are ??? Then I can wake up from that dream....

rm_rbert721 47M

8/29/2005 7:59 am

I'm single and waiting patiently for you.


rm_davron5 46M

9/13/2005 7:43 am

I understand your disapointment because it happens with females as well. Honesty is always the key, it prevents all kinds of DRAMA. Fortunately, all you recieved was a phone call. I almost came to blows with an angry husband I didn't know existed. Luckily, it was all smoothed out. Trust, I feel you.
Your obviously an strong, intelligent sista; and definately fine.
Holla at a brotha, I would love to talk.


SirMounts 102M

10/27/2005 2:19 am

Boy, us Guys are such dogs. I feel ashamed for My gender. *admires self in mirror*


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