Local Meets  

Fox4aKnight1 43F
1176 posts
12/21/2005 1:24 am

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Local Meets


Something that I am curious about. The local meet & greets. I have went to a ton of them and met quite a few nice men and women thanks to them. I am just curious, do you ever go to a local meet & greet if so why? And if you don't go to the local meet & greet why not?

I have noticed that at least here in the south that most of the people that goto meet * greets find it easier (by no means dead easy) to meet some of the other AFFers and possibly feel better about getting together with them at a later time. It helps secure the safty of the members and so on. We had a gal have her drink spiked at one of the meets. Well she was taken home and was safe that night because the rest of us (to some degree) knew this was not normal for her and so took her home safe. Being with a group that gets to know you will help keep you safe and secure and its and ecelent way also to look someone over and get to know them a little better before you decide to have a discreet encounter with them as well. And who knows if the chemisty isn't there, you can check out other possible matchs for a later encounter all w/out having to go on numerous dates. LOL (I know I am bad) LOL anyhoo......consider it.....and let me know on the first part .....I really am curious

rm_daveteak 64M

12/21/2005 5:28 am

some of us are married only here for extra marital sex makes it more difficult


rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
12/21/2005 7:39 am

There aren't any functions like that in WNY - at least none that I'm aware of.


goldri452 64M

12/21/2005 8:42 am

Meet n greets are really difficult for me. Like daveteak, I'm married and it's hard to be clandestine about such things. So instead, I blog and fantasize 'cause it is really slow going.


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/21/2005 9:22 am

    Quoting rm_daveteak:
    some of us are married only here for extra marital sex makes it more difficult
daveteak,

I hear ya. You have a valid point. I imagine it can be a real pain. someone did suggestrecently in the Atl. area of a daytime meet n greet for the married folks. But have heard little to nothing about it.

Hugs
Foxy


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/21/2005 9:29 am

    Quoting rm_VoodooGuru1:
    There aren't any functions like that in WNY - at least none that I'm aware of.
VooDoo,

hmm well I know that if you chat in the chat rooms (down here) you can find out where the parites are at. Perhaps find a friend who likes to chat and set them to wade thru all the junk in the room and find out if y'all have one up there and if so where it might be. Also look at the get localarea of AdultFriendFinder look what the ratings on clubs and so on are. that might give you a hint there too. I know that our locals tend to just set up a time and then "advertise" in the room. They just scope out a local bar or something that has room to dance and be social, then usually on a wed. night around 8pm everyone interested shows up and they meet at the pool room and either play pol chat or dance or whatever. Anyhoo if ya like the idea and can't find one in your area.....let me know if you would like to set tht up and I can tell ya what all happens at ours.

hugs Foxy


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/21/2005 9:31 am

    Quoting goldri452:
    Meet n greets are really difficult for me. Like daveteak, I'm married and it's hard to be clandestine about such things. So instead, I blog and fantasize 'cause it is really slow going.
I hear ya goldi .......like I told Dave .......I heard a whisper about a married meetn greet but thts about it.

hugs
Foxy

sorry I don't know more


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/22/2005 7:56 pm

I have been to one. The reason why I went and why I will continue to go is to meet new people. I realize that this site is not just all about sex. That may be the main reason why we are all here, but I now realize that making new friends is almost as important to me. I will go back to meet new friends. Ultimately, I might actually run into The One... I'm hoping so anyway. Maybe after meeting all of these people they could hook me up w/ a friend of their's. Life, in my opinion, is all about networking w/ others. Speaking of networking, if anybody wants to save money on their home phone bill, call/email me.


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/22/2005 8:23 pm

aas,

I didn't know you had been to a meet n greet hun. Which on have you been to? I have been tot he ones up on the northside and one on the southside one. Let me know.

Hugs
Foxy


rm_ClearWater51 65M
5 posts
12/24/2005 12:14 am

I get lost too easy


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/24/2005 7:49 am

aw hugs Clear,

I know where you are coming from a little. My Mother has no sense of direction.

hugs,
Foxy


sleeplessknight1 68M

12/24/2005 12:37 pm

I shy away from meets.......
I am not too good in crowds.....
and I think people get disappointed..
might make an exception for the bloggers one.....will see...
and timing might be bad..hope I will be back in usa house hunting...


Fox4aKnight1 43F

12/24/2005 2:23 pm

hm slepless heading to the states? awsome let me know where and what not.....and yup I can understand the not liking crowds I use to be the same way....and still am in alot of ways hugs


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