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I started a profile here at AdultFriendFinder just to see what I might see...I did it way back in 1999 with hopes of maybe finding more out about my sexuality and maybe having a few more female female encounters.
Some of you who read my blog may not have read my profile - so here it is:
I like tall people - I am 5'10 and would prefer men to be tall, too. I like all kinds of activities and havent been too afraid of experimenting with toys, bisexual and hardcore events...but on my terms. And I might even consider females...only if there is no male participation......and no married men.....
I do have a pic that I can share...but am selective about passing it around....BUT
PLEASE DONT ASK ME FOR A PICTURE AND THEN NOT (*&! RETURN AN EMAIL! I hate that...I think that you should be man enough to tell me if you are not interested after seeing my picture...and its ok...but be man enough and be honest about it and tell me...besides...I hope its not all about my picture and maybe a lil more about getting to know me...I have a wicked sense of humor and a go get em and fun personality....I am not Barbie...never will be....but remember....some of you men ARENT Ken, either.
I am not a money gal...I like simple 'things'
...I like expensive 'things'...but it's not that important to have 'things'.
I am a highly sensual woman...one who knows what she likes, what she likes to do, and what she likes done. AND I have no issues about telling anyone what those are....
I am interested in meeting new people for good times. Drinks, conversations, whatever else happens, happens.....
What am I looking for in a man?
Honesty is always the first priority…nothing hidden…a friend is good and someone who makes me laugh, and appreciates a good sense of humor is always good. Looks are important but in only the big scheme of things…someone who is clean, hard working, white (my preference and I shouldn’t be knocked for that), tall (I’m 5’10), respectful of my time as I will be of yours, and if you are a musician or ride motorcycles, that’s cool too! UMARRIED IS MOST IMPORTANT of all! I am not going to be your booty call either ‒ booty calls are on MY terms if I want one. I am not Barbie and don’t expect you to be Ken…but I don’t expect you to see a picture and then never write again….be a MAN and say, sorry, you aren’t my type or something….
You will have to know that I am a mom first and foremost ‒ I ADORE and CHERISH my children…nothing comes before them…but with that said, there is room in my life and heart to share time. I am a mom…I don’t ask you to be their dad, they have a great one…if the times come to meet them.....just be their friend.
I appreciate music, theatre, hanging out with friends. I like to drink beer, eat good food but most of all, I don’t want DRAMA. I am not into having a relationship right now, just a buddy to do something with. I am a talker, enjoy stimulating, sexual or any kind of conversation. Know that I am not going to jump into bed with you as soon as we meet…that’s not what I want. I would appreciate you to be clean, disease and drug free. (we can talk)
I am a sexual person and if we get to that point, know that most sexual situation are not forbidden to me (not into a 3some though at this point in my life)…I am a very sexual woman, who knows what I like, knows what I like to do and is not afraid to let my partner know what that is. I am a highly orgasmic woman who appreciates a partner who can keep up with me. I may not have the best body in the world, but I know how to use it and I know how it works.
I would like a partner, friend or lover who makes it about me…gives back as to what I give…someone who is not selfish in their time or in their touches…I am tired of being the one who gives and gives ‒ I have a lot to give but expect something in return. I am a toucher ‒ I love skin, the smell of skin, the taste of skin, the feel of skin.
Let's talk and see what happens....
Now, there is no where in that profile that says I am looking for a sex full time sex partner
....just gives you a breakdown of who and what I am.
Now, I know this is AdultFriendFinder, and you get total assholes every where you go, but here is an email I recently received:
This is going to be short and sweet....I want to be your regular sex partner, anytime, anywhere, you choose...let's roll....I'm ready now...are you? Check my photo and send me one too.
This man sent a photo, not my type. Besides, I am not on this site to just find a regular sex partner, and I have never wrote this...
So I returned an email:
I am sorry but I am not interested in meeting ppl for sex....
AND I AM NOT...my profile clearly states that I am not going to be your booty call - a booty call is ON MY TERMS if I want one.
He returned this email - and this is cut and pasted verbatim from him - caps and all:
HELLO, WELL I AM SORRY IF I MISUNDERSTOOD. GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOU MAY WANT TO TRY ANOTHER SITE. IF YOU LOOK UNDER THE CAPTION FOR AdultFriendFinder AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE....RIGHT UNDERNEITH IT SAYS PLAINLY "THE WORLDS LARGEST SEX AND SWINGERS SITE" . SO YOU ARE ON A SEX SITE. I AM NOT ONLY INTERESTED IN SEX,BUT IT HAS TO BE INCLUDED OF COURSE.
Okay fucktard, where in the hell did I ask you for your fucking opinion...what a ree ree...I tell him NO and he has to send this shit. I know where the hell I am; and I am allowed to see, say and be with whom I choose...and just cos I didnt chose your sorry ass...you have to be a shit...
I hadda get that off my chest.