Hooking Up...  

Firsttime36 53F
209 posts
8/29/2005 6:44 pm

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6/9/2006 2:51 pm

Hooking Up...

Recently I received this AdultFriendFinder email:

...I like your profile , read mine (man with a mission ) and let's hook up

Now, I am not on this website to 'hook' up...I am interested in finding like minded people for conversation, friendship and then more....'hooking up' means to me that you hook up for sex....and I am not doing that...its not what I want....hence, my VERY honest, desciption in my profile...I am not ANYONE'S booty call...I make my decisions...and should not be faulted for it...

Here was my response:

....Hi, I dont hook up...if you would like to get to know me, that's one thing, but I am not interested in just hooking up....

Which, btw, is my FUCKING PEROGATIVE TO SAY....

This was the return email I got:

...Well excuse me. I thought you might be more with the time. If you can't understand the term hook up, then you are too young and uneducated for me . Just because someone hurt you in the past , doesn't mean you have to pit up a wall . Grow up and move on


My response, which I thought out long and hard:

...Unfortunately, my time spent here on AdultFriendFinder has led me to believe that 'hook up' is just what it is...I am not interested in that....Dont tell me to 'grow up'...I am ENTITLED to tell you what I want and what I dont want...NO where in my profile does it say that I want to just 'hook up'....Do not insult my intelligence with your 'grown up' ways of whatever it is you deem a hook up.....NO one has hurt me....its more about being responsible to me and my soul...not yours or anyone elses....I speak my mind, tell ppl what I think...you dont like it...then you GROW UP and move on...

I am sick and tired of these assholes that write me, asking for hook ups, lets meet, let me be your regular....blah blah blah....I get some jag off at least once a night in the Maryland/Virginia Chat room give me a rash of shit cos I am just in there to chat, make new friends, not meet someone and have sex....

PEOPLE...its my (and your) perogative to do what you want on this site...just because I am not here to screw, doesnt mean I should get shit for it....sure, you can write me and ask what you want, your perogative (even though my profile EXPLICITLY says otherwise)...and if I write back and say, no, that's not what I want, then dont write back and give me shit!

Etc, etc, etc.....

RailBaron2 54M

8/29/2005 8:04 pm

Well Spoken

Mausersmth60 56M

9/3/2005 5:56 pm

Friendship should come first, I agree with that! And you OWN that body you walk around in! You decide who touches it, how and when!
I hope to see you in the chatroom again.

Cdub2U 61M

9/3/2005 9:59 pm

I think you can "block" people, I could be wrong. I have never had to do so, but it sounds like that is something you may wish to look into.

dano6332 56M

9/7/2005 5:07 am

Well said. This site, like life, is what you make of it. I am not sure what people are thinking when they get pissed like that response you received. There is no need for hostility or anger, were supposed to be adults, move on. Oh well
Keep up the nice work blogging

hornymd20906 66M

9/7/2005 10:35 am

If someone is too physically driven to understand what you are looking for, then don't worry about them. That is their problem

BltGuy 56M  
37 posts
6/9/2006 2:13 pm

People assume all the time
Which makes an ASS out of U and ME
"Felix Unger"
Great reponse.......
Your first reply was precise and nice enough
and in no way warranted what followed.
Like my grandfather always said, "Fuck 'em"

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