AFF Profile Pictures  

Firsttime36 53F
209 posts
8/28/2005 4:58 am

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AFF Profile Pictures

I gotta ask this....


I was roaming through the members online feature and holy shit batman, all I saw was pictures of mens' dicks.

I can HONESTLY tell you that I would not respond to a profile that only posted a cock I have looked at one cos I couldnt believe that some man posted a picture of, for example, a cock that looked like it could belong to a child...

And, while roaming through this morning, some man ACTUALLY had posted a picture of his big, fat, slovenly, hairy, belly....AND THAT WAS IT!!!....OMG...that made me want to rush right in and write him....and then there are the men who think that I want to look at their hairy that's gonna make me want to be interested too....

I like profiles that at least give you something other than their cock...and if I look at their profile and there is a cock shot, least I can see what that cock shot belongs too...

Now I have posted my eyes only cos' I know of quite a few men who are on here that live in my area...and since I am interested in 3somes and bisexual encounters...and this is my private life, I choose not to post my whole face...

Same for men respond to profiles with only a cunt for their first view?

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
8/28/2005 5:28 am

I rarely reply to the fanny picture as it is so hard to tell what you are reply to. A dismembered loin is probably one of the last things that should be introduced to a new acquaintence (traditional boy me). Still, as you can see from the picture on the left, I have posted a picture which looks like an arse but is in fact my face! Still it does not seem to have made a difference to my inbox which is flying high in the low zeros.

volcanoinu23 53M

8/28/2005 6:16 am

No, I will not respond to a "cunt" only view. I will respond more to a well written profile with no photo than one like that. I like to see photos of a woman's face and even more so, those classic poses which leaves much to the imagination.

Ecaffiene 52F

8/28/2005 6:42 am

just what i said...

rm_kingbored 105M
1 post
8/28/2005 7:30 am

No, not really. I prefer to see a face, though if a photo shows the rest of her body too then so much the better. I'm of the opinion that the sexiest thing a woman can wear is a smile. That's not to say I'd dismiss her out of hand on the basis of her choice of photo but I'd be more inclined to trust her if it portrays her personality as well. Besides, does it not reduce the sense of mystery and discovery?
At the moment, I'm having difficulty deciding on what kind of photo of myself to post. I don't have any "cock shots" (the oportunity/privacy to take one has never arisen - so to speak) but I'm reluctant to put my face out there for the world to see. Right now, I value my anonymity. If a woman wants my photo then all she has to do is email me and ask. If she specifically wants a naked shot then I'll just have to sort it out - if, as and when.
Overall, I suppose if someone posts a picture of themselves showing only their crotch then that's also likely to be the kind of picture they'll respond to - a mug shot likewise.

onewhackyman4 44M
1 post
8/28/2005 7:53 am

I couldn't agree more. Sometimes we need to actually see things before we "get" it.

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swoosh5171 45M

8/28/2005 9:31 am

I think you have indeed touched on a sensitive subject for all trying to enjoy their AdultFriendFinder-experience. I think it comes down to what people view others as being. Some men here on AdultFriendFinder view women as objects and NOT individuals (evident from their dialogue in chatrooms, etc.) while others have an interest in developing a level of friendship with women and seeing how things develope from there.
Honestly, I'm guilty of looking at profiles in which a woman may bear her sexual assets (be it her chest or any other alluring body part), but I have also responded to profiles in which there is NO picture at all, only verbage that gave me a glimpse of what type of person I was dealing with perspectively. I guess it simply depends on what one feels comfortable bearing to the public ... "swoosh"

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
8/28/2005 10:56 am

In response to your questions, first, when I was looking my preference was to see something other than a genetalia shot. And vice versa, I think it is the rare man (but there are a few) who succeeds with that type of shot.

For a more in-depth answer on both these topics, go to these entries: Male Profile Photos and Top Female Profile Photos: August 2005.

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MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
8/28/2005 3:05 pm

True to the topic, I am yet another of those reprehensible, own-cock-enamored troglodytes.

I've been accused of being a big dick so many times, I decided that monster would be just what I’d post for my profile picture.

That's my story, and I'm sticking to it...


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



rm_topplayinmd 50M

8/30/2005 8:06 pm

I tend to answer profiles with no picture than the headless body. I have answered a headless body profile because I read the profile and was interested enough to ask questions. I would not post a cock shot. I understand that people have jobs that make it unwise to put there face here and in that case put no photo. Your first photo probably shows who are what you really are.

irishtongue71 51M

9/13/2005 7:44 pm

I will never post a naked pic of myself publicly. If someone I make contact with is interested and I am comfortable with doing so I may choose to do that (I currently don't even have such photos!). As for responding to the opposite sex profiles, I think I am more responsive to the headshots than anything. Particularly brunettes with green's the eyes that get me every time.

phangasm2003 106M

9/27/2005 2:43 pm

I have a number of shots on my profile and it doesn't seem to make a difference which one is the main profile pic, I get about the same amount of activity, regardless. Pictures are nice, but I still respond to what's in the profile - there's lots of hot pictures out there that I ignore because a) they're probably already getting 500 emails a day and/or b) the profile is crap. Come on, already, tell me what you're looking for, what you like, who you will and won't see. Don't make us both waste our time!

1 post
1/2/2006 4:23 pm

I look at the hustler shots out of prurient interest and because I didn't realize the dearth of women on here. I was shocked and then amused when I saw that it was like 10 to 1 or 20 to 1 and the guys checked the site everyday. It also seems that quite a few of the ladies make it quite clear they are looking for a well hung, an 8+, or an over 10, so I guess guys see it as a job ap. However, I agree it is hard to respond to someone who has such a intimate photo. When you meet them you already know what you came to find out, so to speak. I always preferred Henry miller or Playboy to Hustler, the imagination is a wonderful thing. I don't post a cock shot but do have full recent face and clothed body shots on here and many more in my album.

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