Thoughts on Threesomes  

FelonyMrMeaner 41M/45F
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9/9/2005 9:06 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Thoughts on Threesomes


First off...lets start with the big one:
I LOVE THREESOMES!!!!
Being a woman however, sometimes when people hear this they accuse me of not being "womanly enough" in my views on sex. Don't get me wrong, if I am in a relationship with someone and we consensually have sex with another person while we are both there...that is great. I am not into the open relationship idea enough that he (or I ) could go out an have sex with some other person and that it would all be ok...Honey, I'm home...guess who I fucked senseless this afternoon...just wouldn't fly with me.
The idea however, of being with someone else, along with my partner, and knowing that even just being able to watch another woman and I, seriously turns him on, or having him kiss me as he fucks her, or the sly little looks and smiles we give each other... what a HUGE TURN ON!!
I think the secret for us is that we set up ground rules at the beginning. This is ok with me...this is not, The main one being...if either of us ever feels uncomfortable in any given situation...neither of us feels pressured to continue. If one says stop...no questions would be asked. This is not solely for my pleasure or for his, but something together that we do.
I am so lucky to have found someone who is able to deal with my...bi-curiosity...in an adult way.
Our first threesome...
my boyfriends roommate was having a birthday party, I was invited as well as my close friend, whom coincidentally shares the same name as me...
Anyway...the party was lame, so we took the 3 of ourselves into another room, played our own music and drank a little too much bourbon. Well at one point my friend and I were dancing, my boyfriend left the room for a minute, and somehow or another by the time he got back in, she and I were kissing.
Conversations later have given me this part of the story...He was a little shocked shall we say...We had only known each other for about 2-3 weeks at this point, so he wasn't sure just what to make of this. Well he stood back and watched, and eventually she and I ended up on the bed, full making out...then clothes started to come off, then it was...why are you sitting over there just watching...get your ass in here...and then it was something like 6 hours of hard core sex. At one point, my friend who does not smoke...got up and asked for a cigarette just so she could have the random smoke breaks that we were taking...although it was a great excuse for both of us to sit back and watch the other in action.
LOTS AND LOTS OF FUN!
So in the last 6 months, we have probably had about 6 or 7 more hookups with her.
But as I said in my last post...as fun as she is...and it will probably happen again with her...We would love to find someone new in our area. So if you are in the NoVA/DC area...interested in friends...and maybe occasional playmates drop us a line. Even if sex doesn't end up rearing it's head...it is so great to make new...like minded friends!

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