Friendship vs. One Night Stands  

FarmBoy5152005 66M
9 posts
7/22/2005 4:09 am

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Friendship vs. One Night Stands

I think it is so important that people get to know each other, to become friends before jumping into bed. I see too many who want a one night stand. I do not see this as satisfying. I can get that with my hand. I think it is important to get to know a potential partner, have dinner, make out and pet like teenagers before jumping each other. To me, this will make the relationship much more satisfying since the friendship will overcome any faults we find sexually. I need friends, cuddlers, kissers, someone who can hang out, someone who can come over for BBQ without having sex as the major objective. With that, when sex happens it will be more spontaneous and much more satisfying.


FarmBoy5152005 66M
4 posts
7/23/2005 2:29 pm

I do not feel I need to love someone to have sex with them. However, there must be some friendship and trust before just jumping into the sack. In this day and age, there are so may STD's to worry about. I am not young... but I don't need to worry about STD's. I think it takes time to really trust a person and to be friends. Time may be hours, days, or weeks... I just don't know. But I know that I do not have the same satisfaction from casual relationships that I do from a relationship that starts with friendship and trust.


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